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1/22/2015 5:11:09 AM
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I'm in a predicament. I'm 12 btw. Half the other 12 and 13 year olds at my school are already "dating". I personally thinks it's stupid. I feel there are 2 ways I could plan my life. A smart, geeky, gamer kinda alone person. I feel that marriage is not just the key to happiness like so many people think it is. I want to be different and not a normal married terrible wife and 2 kids like most couples. I play a lot of games and I love video games and the communities. But also, as a 12 year old, I have likings for girls and all that sappy stuff. I want to go both ways, but I feel it hard to find someone that likes games as me and is into me and somewhat cute. I'm 12 and I shouldn't be worrying about this, but need to know what I'm doing in my life and I want to be a gamer but natural reflexes make me I don't know, like girls. I'm sorry I'm 12 idk what I'm saying.
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I agree that you shouldn't get into all that girlfriend stuff yet. All those who are in a relationship at 12 and 13 are going to get into serious pain for jumping the gun. If i were you i would enjoy being free, single, and happy. Enjoy life right now and worry about that stuff in late high school or colledge. You are wise to recognize the foolishness of others mistakes and posses unique abilities to plan for the future. Just don't get prideful about it and use your abilities wisely
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Edited by logan678910 65: 1/23/2015 9:08:07 AMYou said "I'm 12" a lot. Could this be why you're depressed?
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Your still a kid do what others whould do atkeast wait until like 15 or older
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Don't date at your age. It's pointless because it will never last. Plus it's mostly just to show off at your stage in life, especially when it comes to middle school. My twelve year old sister has already had a "boyfriend" and when he "broke up" with her she was in tears. People usually don't like you for how you think in middle school. It's all about "how hot" you are. It creates unnecessary drama. All it truely does is raise your popularity. My friend Bryce was almost unknown to the entire school, but when he got a girl friend he rised to the ranks of stupid, immature, asinine people that are known as popular. Luckily he's still a good kid and hasn't turned stupid from all the attention. Anyways, don't date at your age. Like I said, it's pointless.
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I couldn't agree with you more
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dating is absolutely useless at your age. it's just to show off. just keep being yourself and playing all the games you want, and if you really want to date someone, just wait until high school. the people you see will begin to get a lot more diverse mainly because people figure out who they are at that time. so I'm sure you'll find someone in high school. I was in your situation and I found the love of my life in high school. keep being different man!
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^^ just got to high school already found someone I really like. Every relationship I had before ended up being useless because neither of you really know how you feel. I'm not saying I'm a genius and know everything about dating, far from it actually. But I do know that I have a way better understanding of what I want than I did 3 years ago
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you begin to know who you are at that time, hence how people begin to get more diverse
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Edited by Xernos Edge: 1/22/2015 6:14:21 PMAt your age dont even think about dating. Its sounds cool but it aint. Be different, not too different but just never follow the trance. Its dumb. I dated a pretty girl during highschool sophomore. It was the worst, stupid and dumb. To me happiness is not to be kiss by some one and have sex with some one. I cant explain my definition of happiness. But its a good thing that you have a different view in life and not like others. You're unique kid.
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Your 12. Be yourself and don't put too much weight into dating at that age. Besides, you won't be the same person in 5, 10, or even 15 yrs (I'm just saying you will do a lot of changing in the coming years). Just have fun and be safe and don't feel weird if you're not doing what most others appear to be doing. Besides, I don't know of any marriages that consist of people that have been together from the age of 12. (I'm sure they exist but they are the extreme minority)
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Be both. Be yourself. Girls and games are not mutually exclusive.
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You're smart! Stay that way! You don't want to end up as an trailer trash dad!
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Don't worry about all that. Have fun and enjoy your young years without worrying cause the older you get the more worries and stress there will be. Give it to about 15 or 16 and then I'm sure you'll have a idea of if you want a gf or not. I didn't meet my first gf till I was 23. Somethings just take more time for other people than it does others.
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I'm 13 bro, I feels what you're going through. Thing is, there's a girl out there. The one. That girl has probably not entered your life yet, and probably not for 10 years. She will love games, she will love you, crap will work out. This is about the age where we start to start finding ourselves. But don't try too hard, because here's the thing: it ain't gonna happen now. Just be yourself, and if you don't like yourself, be the guy you want to be. I thought I was totally not getting a girl till 20 ish. Then here I am, with a gf. Life can mess you up, just got to go with the flow, and if it feels right, go ahead and be different. It's your decisions, good and bad that make you. So just go out there (or in there) and start putting yourself together.
