I see a lot of people hard biased one way or another. I had a very similar situation. My girl wanted me to stop gaming. I tool care of her son like my own. I worked my ass of usually 7 days a week and paid for almost everything. I loved her very much. I do love her very much but her neediness was too much. She wanted me sitting on the couch watching reruns of teen mom. Sorry but no. She came home one day and gave me the ultimatum. You should never give someone you love an ultimatum. You should never remove their choice. I let her go. It was hard but I refuse to live that way. I'm a grown ass man and will not be forced into anything. Had I quit gaming I would have just resented the shit out of her. It wasn't about balance. She wanted power. I'm not the one