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Edited by brOwniiez:
1/19/2015 6:14:58 AM
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Thanks for the ADVICE! Goodbye to my Young Girlfriend!!
So, I am back.. As you may have read about my situation already about having to make a decision between Gaming and my Girlfriend... To refresh your memory or if you may not know yet, I had to make a decision to either be with my girlfriend or stop grinding Destiny (Full story here http://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/93198637/0/0)
Today I decided to let her leave my house as I couldn't take drama any more, she asks me to cut back time on Destiny which I feel I'll be losing out... I work full time and use all my time to play because just like everybody else I want Icebreakers, MIDA Tools and Fatebringers!
So to me it seemed selfish of her to ask me to stop playing so much to spend time with her.... As I work hard at work everyday and bring home money, rent and putting food on the table she should show a little more respect and gratitude towards me. It seems as if she takes me for granted and wants more and more from me. So I've decided to let her go because no way in hell would I give up my gaming for her.. Ungrateful woman I must say but anyway I do want to thank you people for all the advice on my other thread! It really helped.
Good riddance to her.
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Got your priorities straight, good job man
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Dude don't listen to any of these retards. I recently got divorced for other reasons waaaaay beyond stupid ass gaming. Just be happy you didn't marry the chick, if she was bitching about you playing just video games just imagine the other shit storm you would have to dealt with if you put a ring on it. You did a good thing man don't regret it at all.
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1 ReplyDog you can't be serious. You gave up someone who wanted to spend time with you and be with you for a video game? This girl wanted you to stop playing video games because she wanted to be with you more. At the end of it all, who's going to be with you? A video game, or a wife that loves you? Stop being such a -blam!-ing nerd and get a life. You are an idiot.
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5 RepliesI love my fiancé. She has put up with over 700 hours of Destiny. :) she loves and supports me through my struggles, however dumb they may seem. And I love her through her binge watching stupid series' like The Borgias. If she couldn't handle who I was, and my need to conquer everything, including this dumb game, then she wouldn't be for me. As long as she is first and all bills are paid, we respect eachothers hobbies/additions and that's how it should be! :) enjoy the freedom OP. For now anyway. ;) lol
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1 ReplyEdited by Evertill: 1/20/2015 10:39:14 AMA lot of people think you're stupid for giving up your girl but I have a question. Did she work too? Because if she did, and still made time for you I think you were in the wrong. If she did not, and just stayed home eating your food, using your electricity, and sleeping in your bed then that bitch can go. You need a real woman, one who doesn't just contribute sex to the relationship. You might find you naturally don't want to play Destiny as much when some one is actually worth your time!
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1 ReplyThey call this "The Sexodus". Young men world wide are backing away from relationships at a surprising rate. I don't blame individual women, but what society expects out of men now a days is just over the top. A guy is suppose to be gentle, but able to scare off attackers. He is suppose to be successful, but not take work serious. He can't go out with his friends every weekend, but having a solo hobby (gaming, working on cars, playing guitar, ect ect) is frowned upon too.
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My gaming career lasts longer than most relationships now a days. You sir have made a right choice.
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2 RepliesHoes ain't shit I can pull all day shit do it all ready. I will say that destiny won't be there if your car breaks down or any of the shitty things life -blam!-ing brings... But you got friends for that shit and try not to be to harsh because it's not her fault she likes you... You kinda made that happen and from the outside looking in it's completely up to you bro.
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8 RepliesFunny how a lot of you are calling OP an idiot for doing this. Are that many of you ignorant children, that you think having a relasionship is all daisies and sunshine? There is such a thing as a bad or toxic relasionship, and this was obviously one of them. Good job OP. Screw that selish, ungrateful bullshit.
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Well, relationships and human contact are not for everyone.
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You did good. If you had to choose gaming over her, she wasn't doing much correctly. Forget what everyone says about you not getting pussy daily and blah blah blah. Sometimes pussy isn't the answer. (Applauds you)
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Whoa chill guys we don't really know if the stuff is real. and if so, then if: OP is a same/good person in other ways or not (and no reason to believe otherwise than that he is) There are a lot of ways a person can be worse off than letting someone know that its over because they believe how they are spending the time matters to them. Some have put social and ethical issues, which aren't there: His decision seems logical. You procure means of nourishment, comfort, livelihood (read daily 9-5 thing). Rest of waking life spent interacting with gadgets, and other creatures (humans, animals) - interactions driven by your values. Get a snazzy gadget because its better. Minimize negative interaction with other creatures. Then you sleep. If you sleep a lot - or less for that matter - a good bed never hurts. [i]Point being, making your environment conducive to values you hold at the moment.[/i] At the moment, OP like Destiny, and he chose that. And made a decision about it rather than engage in routine discord. [spoiler]And btw, getting pussy is not that hard, gaming or otherwise. Being in a stable state all day is important.[/spoiler]
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More money left for video games. I couldn't care for relationships I like wasting money on myself too much.
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1 ReplySo you gave up daily pussy and blowjobs for a video game? You're a fukin idiot! Nuff said
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Cheers to you brother, keep gaming and you will find a better woman who would compete against u in destiny! #girlswhoplaysvideogamesarewinning
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Lol #notactuallyreal
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12 RepliesThia idiot haha, literally no-one said leave her........ This guys is gonna soon leave his job for destiny and the become homeless and live in a bin..... What retard leaves a girlfriend for a video game! Especially an RnG game where time spent doesnt factor to what you get Hope your girlfriend never looks back and finds someelse who will take the time to care for her and not be a selfish prick like yourself BUMP if you agree! #nevergofullretard #hewentfullretard #ihopeyougetgreenengramsforlife
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Come on everyone he never had a girlfriend. This is a bullshit post like all the other bullshit posts on the forum we see every day
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That's stupid, not entirely stupid, but still! I would play all day if I'm married or have a girlfriend, but at the same time, I would give her her own time.
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Have you ever thought that it is actually your boss who is not allowing you to spend more time with Destiny? How many hours per day do you work? Think about it while jerking off!
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Doesn't matter what people think. If you think you made the right choice that's all that matters.
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Edited by ooperz: 1/20/2015 8:16:47 AMThought this was a troll, but then I saw the other thread.. I still hope you're trolling and forgot to add a #satire at the end. If not, I hope you enjoy gaining virtual rewards while she's out getting banged by a very real dude (or dudes) who actually know how a relationship works. Though I will say that if you never gave her the time of day she was probably getting banged by another dude already. I am also happy for her to be rid of such a sloth of a "partner". *Edited to be a bit more vicious because you deserve it.*
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If this is true it's pretty pathetic. Best of luck to you.
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You sir are a Sad Man to put a Game over a Companion. Have you ever Noticed that your Girlfriend is probably being like this because you don't spend any time with her at all because of Destiny. I feel for your Girlfriend. You are just Idiotic!
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23 RepliesAll of these kids don't understand anything about relationships. You don't have to have a gf to get pussy you know that right? It sounds like OPs girlfriend was extremely selfish and wanted him to partake with her in her hobbies but she didn't want him to do anything that he wanted to do. He also supported her financially and she still was not grateful for that. She was just a toxic person who he is better off without, if she was a quality gf she would support him and be understanding of him. A lot of people here think it's the hardest thing in the world to get a gf too. All you need to get a gf is a decent looking face and the ability to hold a conversation. Congrats OP enjoy your financial and personal freedom.
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6 RepliesThe saying is "Happy Wife, Happy Life." Clearly you are on the path towards a sad life. I would never let a video game consume my life. A single life is out of the question for your future as well. Single guys at least sleep around. You are in the category of lonely life. Why? You go to work only to come home to a video game. No offspring to carry on your legacy. No woman to love you. Just lonely. Enjoy a sexless, stripper-full, video game life.
