I work full time as well but I'm married. I think the system my wife and I have worked out seems to be ok. I play Monday and Tuesday night's from 6pm-10pm on her late nights from work. Then later night Friday and sometimes Saturday unless we have plans. Plus whatever odd Saturday she works. We do plenty together and I still have idle time for my 4. You just have to be smart and understanding and I'm sure you could have worked it out without breaking up with her. Then again, if all you want to do is game, then go for it. Live your life. You only get one. So if waisting your time on a game with a weak storyline, bad PvP matchmaking and ok graphics instead of being with someone...Have at it.