They're stabbing themselves in the back. It kind of hurts deep down knowing that they're blind to the fact that they are doing so. I want to help them, but they've made it clear that they don't truly want us to lend a hand. They've told many white lies; suggesting they wanted our help in shaping their world - together. At the end of the day, the lie becomes evident. I swear, it's like dealing with an alcoholic who doesn't want to be helped.