Never had a girlfriend
Never had sex
Never kissed a girl
Never done anything with a girl other than hug
Never had a girl tell me "I like you" or anything similar like that
I just... I dunno man.
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I like you. [spoiler]As a friend.[/spoiler]
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You cannot sit and wait for life to come to you. Do you know how long I would have had to wait to meet the girl I love if I just sat around? Forever, I wouldn't know her. There are times in every mans life where you have to set aside your fears and do what you know needs to be done. I stood at my first girlfriends house not long ago in the rain (Oregon sucks) holding flowers and a note I wrote her and told her how much I cared about her. BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE. Had I sat around waiting for her to love me, I would have been waiting possible forever. Get out there. Show them why you're better than anyone else
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:'( Will you marry me? [spoiler]You're All My Alts[/spoiler]
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No haha xD
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That's rough bro... I'll pray for you if you want
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Edited by psichotykwyrm: 7/8/2014 3:08:53 AMLots of people are gonna tell you to do things to attract women. You've probably heard the old platitudes like, "just be yourself". I'm about to suggest something you may have never heard. Granted, I could be way off base here, because I have limited information to work with, but... Have you considered that you may be sexually repressed? What this basically boils down to is being unable to express one's own sexuality. For any number of reasons this can happen. It can be anything from religious shaming to an extreme lack of confidence. The ultimate effect is that a person does not express their sexual desires to the world around them. I was repressed myself through my teens. I allowed a few negative experiences with girls, along with some other social problems, to convince myself that I could never be attractive to women. Believing that, I completely shut down in that area. I did not express myself that way towards girls, and was so convinced of my undesirable status that I was unable to perceive actual positive female attention that came my way. I was seriously consigned to loneliness. Luckily one day when I was about 19-20 a girl told me she thought I was attractive. I was then able to challenge my long held notion that I was doomed to never be desired. Nothing happened with her by the way, but I was finally able to see myself as a viable choice for a woman, and therefore begin to act on it. And you have to act on it. That's the entire thing. You have to express your desire publicly. If you are in fact repressed, this is gonna be difficult. It will make you uncomfortable. It's tempting to just do nothing and hope that one day a woman will just like you and solve the problem for you. This will not happen though. If a woman perceives that you are not interested, she's probably not gonna waste her time. This is why you have to express interest. You'd be surprised how far eye contact and smiles go. Not just an everyday smile you'd give your grandma. Look at her in a way that let's her know you're smiling because of her. You may feel uncomfortable here, afraid you're being creepy. DON'T. It actually takes a bit of effort to be a creep. Expressing interest is a natural thing that repressed folks have just unintentionally flipped some kind of off switch for in their minds. General tips: stay away from those MRA guys. Anything they tell you will only make the situation worse. No need to blame women for what is essentially an internal problem. Secondly, if things start turning around for you, be completely honest about your inexperience. I was so ashamed of my own inexperience that I pretended to know what I was doing. Don't be me. That was far too awkward to even talk about. Just don't feel bad about inexperience. Think of it like games, everyone starts out a noob. Hope all that helps. Good luck to you.
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Same for me...
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[quote]Same for me...[/quote]. WHY ISNT THIS IN CAPS?!?!?!?
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I DONT KNOW.
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Edit bb
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Plz? Ill make it worth your while.
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Just hire an escort mr. Jono
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Do explain.
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If you've had no chance with woman, just hire an escort to experience sex.
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I've been considering it but I kinda don't want to do that.
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Goto the gym. Dont be shy. Be fun. Pussy will be thrown at u.
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use a different shampoo you're using the wrong shampoo
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This ^^
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Yes, id recommend old spice la douche