Some people have life's and go to work and have wife's and husband's and kids not everyone can play like that, I know a person who only gets to play like 2 days a week and he does a strike or two and that's it, its called life, its not an excuse it is the reason, why some don't have it, so when you get older and have kids and go to work 5 days a week for 12 hours a day to support your family than you can talk