Lmao so true. Just get a group of about 10 or so people that have decent skill and are fairly cool. Pair up with a some that want to raid and u might have a full group. If not they always have friends etc. just don't rely on playing w randoms as much as possible especially when your in it for fun. Learn how to do different things at your own pace and whenever you have the free time. Lastly, enjoy destiny for what it is... A game. Whether you play 8hrs a day or 8hrs a week. Just try and have fun. If your not having fun, do something different. I'm nearing exhaustion from this game and will be trying to take a break. I hope I can find another game worth getting in to.