Yeah, imma have to live with this brain for the rest of my life. If all you said is that people who who wants to do raids should learn them and not expect to be carried, thats totally legit. (It goes without saying). My only objection is people telling me what to learn when i've never asked to be in a raid to begin with. If i can be of any assistance, that's great. I can shoot at whatever you tell me to. But please don't expect anyone to be a type of player they're not so they can go do something they don't want to do. For the record i am learning them now cause its either that or quit. But i hate it. I hate how they work, the forced socialisation, all the drama. Making sense of and trying to speak a foreign language all the time. So the question is; Is it worth it? Is the few people i actually like worth all the bs? Is the superb gameplay worth the grind? If its going to be so much effort wouldn't it be better to put it towards something other than a videogame? Should i direct my energy into maintaining "realworld" relationships, rather than people i probably wont ever even meet? F###ing Bungie. All i wanted was a spaceshooter

Lmao so true. Just get a group of about 10 or so people that have decent skill and are fairly cool. Pair up with a some that want to raid and u might have a full group. If not they always have friends etc. just don't rely on playing w randoms as much as possible especially when your in it for fun. Learn how to do different things at your own pace and whenever you have the free time. Lastly, enjoy destiny for what it is... A game. Whether you play 8hrs a day or 8hrs a week. Just try and have fun. If your not having fun, do something different. I'm nearing exhaustion from this game and will be trying to take a break. I hope I can find another game worth getting in to.