I'm a 32. Only done VOG a few times. Everyone is super cereal and no one has ever been open to "I'm not good with the relic, but I'd love to learn...wanna give me a few practice rounds before we move on?" One team said sure and gave me two wipes then got pissed and ran the relic on their own. I get where you are coming from, but people like you are actually the problem. Instead of throwing up the hate on the forums ask everyone in your group of they can run the relic. Then teach the ones that don't. Snobbery isn't going to elevate the community.