I think last since of how much and what at they do is longer the punishment and if he just attacks you there's something that makes him jealous about you or something he hates and if you find it out improve but if he's jelly try to talk to him and if you don't try any of those than why I think you should pick the third is because it prevents you from being verbally or physically assaulted if you ignore him or being kicked out since he might pretend or do something worst than what you did if you pick the first so hang in there man and do your best too fix this problem! :)