I've got a 9 month old daughter. It was hard for a while to balance being a mom and have time for myself. I would end up not having time for myself at all. Now that she's older and got a pretty good sleeping schedule I can play (and even raid) when she goes to sleep. My kid will always come first though. If I'm on Crota and he's hardly got any life left and I hear my baby crying in her crib I'll leave the game and go soothe her. That's where I draw the line. I'm being told by so many people that kids grow up so quick. There are days where I feel like playing Destiny and not necessarily be chasing a little one around the house. When that happens I just tell myself that memories with her as a little baby are worth a lot more than finding a cool weapon in a game that won't even matter to me down the road.