So, I am back.. As you may have read about my situation already about having to make a decision between Gaming and my Girlfriend... To refresh your memory or if you may not know yet, I had to make a decision to either be with my girlfriend or stop grinding Destiny (Full story here http://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/93198637/0/0)
Today I decided to let her leave my house as I couldn't take drama any more, she asks me to cut back time on Destiny which I feel I'll be losing out... I work full time and use all my time to play because just like everybody else I want Icebreakers, MIDA Tools and Fatebringers!
So to me it seemed selfish of her to ask me to stop playing so much to spend time with her.... As I work hard at work everyday and bring home money, rent and putting food on the table she should show a little more respect and gratitude towards me. It seems as if she takes me for granted and wants more and more from me. So I've decided to let her go because no way in hell would I give up my gaming for her.. Ungrateful woman I must say but anyway I do want to thank you people for all the advice on my other thread! It really helped.
Good riddance to her.
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You dillusional idiot.
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You'll be a fat lonely loser in no time. Hmm you prob are already
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The way you talk about women is disturbing. You'll spend the rest of your life solo with this attitude, jus sayin... You'll be the realist max level ever. Be wary.
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[quote]I work full time and use all my time to play[/quote] You do realize that if [b][u]all[/u][/b], as you stated, of your time is dedicated to either working or gaming you have exactly a 0% chance of getting another girlfriend. You'd better be nice to that hand of yours. I kept waiting for you to put #satire somewhere. I'm shocked you didn't. You probably meant to, I can't believe this to be real.
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Lol man you're an idiot. As you described it, you didn't offer her any time at all, what kind of relationship is that? And you're the selfish one for not taking care of her at all. A relationship is something you need to work on and you can't just force respect out of her, just because you bring the money on the table. Don't let a game take over your life.
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She is selfish because she wanted to spend some time with you.... Wow you really are braindead.
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When you've logged in 26 plus days playing a game that's been out for four months, she might have a point that your playing too much. JS, my wife bitches at me that I play too much and Ive logged in half the amount of time you did
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You're a -blam!-ing retard. Lol
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Disregard women Attain glimmer
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I hope you die alone.. oh wait you already are dying alone.. your an idiot..what happens when you quit this game and you realize your only happiness was the smile of your ex girlfriend who has already moved on and will never love you again.. just think before you do stupid shit like that
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Haha you sound like a real catch. "Ugggggh I have to go to work, and my girlfriend wants to spend time with me!?" Destiny will keep you warm when you die alone.
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Not sure what so say ..........
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I also work full time and lucky enough have a very understanding partner and she doesn't mind me playing destiny but I don't do that all the time we discussed it and I decided on this I generally play Sunday night and Monday night spend time with her Tuesday and Wednesday nights depending on how I am ill play on a Thursday night and a Friday Saturday is time together this works for us as one doesn't feel to be treated unfairly I get my game time and time together too it's all about compromise but everybody is different
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Oh man. It's a different story if you were actually showing her a good amount of attention outside of Destiny, but it sounds to me like you have little free time as it is, and were spending the little time you do have playing Destiny. If she feels like she was being replaced by the game then that was likely the case, and for you to feel like SHE is being the selfish one is foolish. No matter what, I believe a meaningful human connection and relationship is more important than a video game, let alone Destiny. I understand the grind, don't get me wrong. But if I had a girlfriend who I legitimate valued and she asked me to cut back on playing, I would because she would mean more to me than a Fatebringer or Icebreaker. Also, this is the reason why women feel like cheating on their man, because he spends all his time grinding strange coins instead of grinding the strange coin in her pants. I don't know your life, but it sounds to me like you both are better off doing your own thing. She wants a man who isn't staring at the TV longer than her, and you want a girl who won't mind your grinding time. I advise finding a gamer girlfriend so you guys can grind together, I've seen this before and it's awesome. Basically, think about what your priorities are. Do you want a girlfriend or a wealthy amount of exotics and legendaries?Not trying to bash you, just saying that if you are gonna game to the extent that you are, don't expect your girlfriend to be cool with it unless she's doing the same thing.
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I'll take her.
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You're a tool, on the plus side you could always pick up one of these bad boys to fill the time between work and destiny http://metro.co.uk/2015/01/16/nsfw-calling-all-foot-fetishists-the-vajankle-is-the-sex-toy-for-you-5025206/
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Lol man my g/f gave me a two hour speech on the same thing. Women can be crazy .
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So, everyone is taking this guy seriously?
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Edited by Azotine: 1/19/2015 1:33:18 PMStill have to make time for your woman bro... I'll just take my wife out to dinner, make love then I'm good for about 3 days then have to repeat the same cycle But what I'm trying to say is it's good to have your lady around but good luck buddy
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Destiny is a badddd side bitch
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Ok....I'm really worried now that I didn't see the #satire hashtag. You sir, are one sad little fûck. Probably will have to turn gay now since no other girl would want you. Enjoy taking it ^^
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I hate people and there life stories who cares?
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Another thread? Ugh god why can't this guy just get banned already.
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Being a husband and a father I can assume that your not spending your time right. Destiny is fun but it won't love you back or help you when your down. Having reliable people in your life is important. I like to game a few hours Tuesday for nightfalls and weeklies then a few hours here and there till Saturday, my group gets on Saturday to raid.
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Stupid
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Is Destiny going to suck your dick?