Sometimes your best friend is the one who doesn't tell you what you want hear, but cares enough to give you a kick in the ass when your being a self-absorbed jerk. Which is what the Op was being.
Part of being a grown up is accepting that what other people need sometimes takes priority over what we want. Which seems to be an idea that this generation has some difficulty grasping.
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GTFO! Lol
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well done, cpe
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You are rationalizing to avoid responsibility. Where in the original post was the player being either self-absorbed or a jerk? Its comical to me you have seemed to have settled on some moral high ground when you not only opened with an abrasive and childish comment, but then proven yourself to be hypocritical.