you cheating on your wife has nothing to do with you chopping off your childs hand the first time the raid the cookie jar to steal some treats. Its nice that you can make objective judgements about you being better than people based on tiny amounts of information. We for example have no idea why he was cheating on his wife, perhaps because he is a douche or perhaps she is the sort of crazy fecker that made his life hell (you know the sort of bat shit crazy person that would cut off someones cock twice say...) and so he turned elsewhere but was reluctant to leave her because he wanted to be near his kids. Issues are rarely black and white and the fact that you can so happily proclaim yourself a better person then him when you know so little about him makes me think that in all likelyhood you probably arent.