I defiantly understand this issue here but another major problem is that many women, [spoiler]yes girls here are women, get it right ;3[/spoiler] Don't exactly trust guys at first, The best way to make friends with a shy one is too just be chilled out and with your friends who know her [spoiler]this is what most guys say, I do not believe in this though[/spoiler] Here is my opinion on that, Girl gamers are wonderful to have yes, But many will just ignore you anyways or move on, I as an xbox player have just removed around 65 people on my friends list, I have around 20 left and only about...1 or two i actually talk to, This is the problem, many don't have actual xbox friends who they interact with all of the time, So why should a girl come into play? It spices things up, that's why. [spoiler]sorry for confusing opinion and such, lol[/spoiler] As another detail a very few gamers including me do not desire just a gender, They desire actual interactions and do not care what gender, race, or culture you are :3 [spoiler]I'm starting to sound like Martin Luther King Jr... Lol[/spoiler] But all I yearn for is a friend, But who is also my age lol, Not the usual twelve year old :3. [spoiler]NEONjabAWaKI if you are interested lol, [i]i am that guy now[/i][/spoiler]