I find it very fun and exciting when playing with female players. I know, what guy doesn't right? The thing is that, in my personal experience, when playing with my buddies, or my boys, we create a certain atmosphere. When a female player comes in the picture, most of us don't know how to react to the situation. I personally really don't like cursing, or using bad language with any girl. It makes me feel like I have no class when I do, but yet I find it hilarious when guys try to stand out in the party by cussing, and being extra dramatic when a girl is in the game.
Most of us men might know how to speak with women outside of gaming, but when it comes to chatting with them online, or in a party chat inside the gaming world, we seem to not be able to handle it. I still haven't found the solution to this problem, but maybe posting something on the subject may get us a step closer to finding this solution.
[b]The problem[/b]
Female players complain on how male players harass, annoy, and bug the hell out of them as soon as they find out that they're a girl. Sending mass 'friend requests', 'messages', and 'party invites' do not make female players intrigued to play with us. Overall most men would love to play games with female players every other night if they could. But honestly, most male players simply do not know how to respond to the female players who we find playing our favorite game.
[b]Why are guys so thirsty online?[/b]
I do have female gamers which who i play with occasionally, yet I wish I had more female players to play with. When playing with girl gamers, conversations take different turns, and different topics come up, oppose to when playing with your buddies. This is one of the reasons why male players are so excited to have a female player in their friends list. Perhaps some guys play more games than socialize outside of their rooms. Whether this is true or not, what guy doesn't dream of a hot, sexy girl who enjoys the same things as we do? So what better place to find this sexy woman over a match online?
[b]The truth[/b]
The truth is simple. The world isn't a fairytale, so if you are hoping to find this perfect partner over a match most likely wont happen. Yet I don't see a reason to not send a friend request to a female player, nor I find a reason for any girl to get upset. Why is it still a surprise when female players get requested by guys? We don't know, but hopefully times will change to where gamers overall become more friendly, and the number of females in the gaming world are equal to those for males.
[b]Any suggestions?[/b]
The only clue to the solution for this problem is more female players. Guys still dominate the numbers game in the world of gaming, so perhaps by equaling the number of female players, this might quench the thirst for most of these guys. Thank you for taking the time and reading this, this is my very first post. If you enjoyed it please leave a comment, and for any suggestions that could help find the solution to this problem, feel free to leave your comments here as well. Take care ladies, and gentlemen. have a great weekend.
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What I want to know is how do people react when they come across a transgender cyborg space ninja.
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Op is confirmed for neckbeard and fedora
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If I come across a girl gamer I either leave the game or just pretend they don't exist, depending on whether or not they're talking. on rare occasion I am inconceivably horrible to them.
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I'm a girl gamer, so anyone who has a Xbox one doesn't mind playing add me GT:kraziiazn704
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Just treat us as you would treat a fellow gamer. There is no need to act different around us, just be yourself and you will be fine.
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Nothing will change I'm usually quite while playing.
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What you try to act like. [quote]Bro... / ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° _ノ ヽ ノ \_ `/ `/ ⌒Y⌒ Y ヽ ( (三ヽ人 / | | ノ⌒\  ̄ ̄ヽ ノ ヽ___>、___/ |( 王 ノ〈 /ミ`ー―彡ヽ / ヽ_/
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I have a solution, just treat us like normal people. Its not rocket science or anything, just act as if you usually do playing games.
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Edited by TheTrickyTrixie: 2/16/2015 1:53:55 AMHonestly, I find it more annoying when guys don't express themselves around me on Xbox... Like I'm going to hate them or something... Like, Just talk & be yourself. Say whatever you want at least around me. ^.^ I'm a little shy & stuff but if you make a conversation I'll join in :)
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I play games with people the same way WWII Russia fought battles. You're all just used to waste the enemies ammo so I can get by
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*sits in a polished black leather chair* *pints atself*
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The only girl gamer I regularly play with is a friend of mine, and we swear a lot. Pretty chill.
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Well said. Gotta be gentleman.
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I just don't change, no reason to
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Mostly why I don't use my mic. Also really shy/introvert so
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The only time I really ever play video games with girls they are in the same room as me so...
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You havent played with the ones i have played with, played with one earlier amd she wouldnt stop yelling in the mic and acting like because shes a girl everyone has to bow down to her. I act like a douche to those kinds but other than that i meet some pretty fun ones i even had one get her boyfriend to add me. We even play a lot now its the type you play with i know some pervy women
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Too long to read
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These girls ain't loyal!
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Edited by SovietPotatoe: 2/14/2015 9:48:35 PMi just talk normally to them some of them are really cool some are meh i ain't like most guys when they hear a girls voice they just freeze like dude are you serious she is a human being to just act normally
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I got really annoyed reading this white knight bullshit.
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My science teacher back in 8th met or husband on Xbox live .-.
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My best friend on xbox is a girl and i've known her for atleast three years now, then a while ago i became friend with this guy and i Introduced him to my best friend (the girl) and ever since that he's been acting so strange. He always tries to stand out over me! Both me and her noticed it! And i'm laughing in silence everytime it happens,
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There's no problem unless they use their gender as a means for attention. I know a lot of girls who I game with, and the ones I respect the most act normal. As for my end, I try to treat both men and women equally. After all, we're all just gamers.
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Ladies read this if you want to add me
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Can I get a spark notes version of this?