I find it very fun and exciting when playing with female players. I know, what guy doesn't right? The thing is that, in my personal experience, when playing with my buddies, or my boys, we create a certain atmosphere. When a female player comes in the picture, most of us don't know how to react to the situation. I personally really don't like cursing, or using bad language with any girl. It makes me feel like I have no class when I do, but yet I find it hilarious when guys try to stand out in the party by cussing, and being extra dramatic when a girl is in the game.
Most of us men might know how to speak with women outside of gaming, but when it comes to chatting with them online, or in a party chat inside the gaming world, we seem to not be able to handle it. I still haven't found the solution to this problem, but maybe posting something on the subject may get us a step closer to finding this solution.
[b]The problem[/b]
Female players complain on how male players harass, annoy, and bug the hell out of them as soon as they find out that they're a girl. Sending mass 'friend requests', 'messages', and 'party invites' do not make female players intrigued to play with us. Overall most men would love to play games with female players every other night if they could. But honestly, most male players simply do not know how to respond to the female players who we find playing our favorite game.
[b]Why are guys so thirsty online?[/b]
I do have female gamers which who i play with occasionally, yet I wish I had more female players to play with. When playing with girl gamers, conversations take different turns, and different topics come up, oppose to when playing with your buddies. This is one of the reasons why male players are so excited to have a female player in their friends list. Perhaps some guys play more games than socialize outside of their rooms. Whether this is true or not, what guy doesn't dream of a hot, sexy girl who enjoys the same things as we do? So what better place to find this sexy woman over a match online?
[b]The truth[/b]
The truth is simple. The world isn't a fairytale, so if you are hoping to find this perfect partner over a match most likely wont happen. Yet I don't see a reason to not send a friend request to a female player, nor I find a reason for any girl to get upset. Why is it still a surprise when female players get requested by guys? We don't know, but hopefully times will change to where gamers overall become more friendly, and the number of females in the gaming world are equal to those for males.
[b]Any suggestions?[/b]
The only clue to the solution for this problem is more female players. Guys still dominate the numbers game in the world of gaming, so perhaps by equaling the number of female players, this might quench the thirst for most of these guys. Thank you for taking the time and reading this, this is my very first post. If you enjoyed it please leave a comment, and for any suggestions that could help find the solution to this problem, feel free to leave your comments here as well. Take care ladies, and gentlemen. have a great weekend.
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Edited by Meatball: 3/4/2015 9:24:40 PM1.I've never played with one but would like to. [spoiler]and no im not thirsty im gay so...[/spoiler] 2.I would treat them like i would with anyone else that i play with.
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My mic is usually off unless I'm playing with friends OR feel the need to reveal to the assholes I just destroyed that a female just castrated them...then I flip my hair and put on lip gloss.
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Why should it matter if you got meat and two veg or tits and a twat? Who cares, just lighten up, have a laugh and play the game everyone
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Not give a sh@t and treat the lady like a person. If she's chilling then awesome if she's a b@tch gtfo.
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I always try to sleep with the girls I meet online... That's why I am still in prison.
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Tl;dr
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I'm not sociable, I hate people, Why am I on here, Stop talking to me.
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Guys get too angry, girls are fun to play with. I'm 16 3/4 and I definitely prefer females
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Depends on the female
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I usually fall silent then have a panic attack and fall to the ground
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Never actually played with one soooo...
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I just call them a faggöt like I would anyone else #equality
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Edited by Temporal Walker: 3/1/2015 3:57:02 PMWhen I game, I consider everyone as a human being. I be myself. I laugh when I fail, and freak out when something amazing happens. My conversation topics don't change, my questions do though (they just get weirder). Most female players appreciate the fact that I don't care what gender you are. If you're fun, that's good enough for me.
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I'm a guy, and a really good friend of mine is through Xbox. She's a girl, and when I panicked and didn't know what to say (I'm normally ok with all girls in public) I would start talking about music. We both have a huge passion for music, and if you want to talk to girls online just find something they like then talk about it. Also, me and my friends somehow came up with the name L'Daquan for her. You could also do things like that.
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[quote][b]Why are guys so thirsty online?[/b][/quote] That's so true
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The solution is don't treat them any differently
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I usually just assume they're ugly so I treat them like a pal
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You can really never find the right one.
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It's a great post. It's interesting to see the way you perceive thing. As I female, I don't find it annoying if you use bad words as you do with your pals, I think what bothers me is when guys try to hit on me while playing, it's awkward, when someone start either complimenting you just cause you're a gamer female or say things like "wow, you're like the only woman I've played with". I've been lucky to have found good friends online (men or women) to just have fun and enjoy games. Gamers are gamers it doesn't matter whether you're a boy or girl.
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I treat them as fellow gamers.. That is what they are. Don't treat them differently or act any different.
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Play with a male is funny and comfortable. But a lot of boys send to me a stupid messages, also y lovd play with boys, i can do all that i want.
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Gender is not a factor in gaming. Only idiots succumb to such notions.
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Here's a statistic for you. Out if all the gaming community, 45% are female [spoiler]The more you know...[/spoiler]
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I can't understand why some guys downright refuse to play with female players.. Anyone like this? Can they explain why?
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This reminded me of something really weird that happened to me one day. So there was this group of my friends in a cod lobby and some random person joined. We all added each other and started talking in a party. I thought "she" was a girl because "she" had a really high pitched voice. So somehow the topic came out about guys stuff and I was like why r you guys saying this in front of a "girl". Then I realized that "she" was a guy and I left immediately.
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What I want to know is how do people react when they come across a transgender cyborg space ninja.