Xmas was great. It was just a day of lazing around at my cousins house, opening gifts, having Christmas dinner and all that good stuff. For New Years I was just glad to back in muh home and so was my wife because she was painfully shy around my extended family and just sort of stuck around me, my dad, and my grandmother at first but once she realized most of the people there were people we hadn't seen in 3 years she just decided to hang out with my cousins wife who also didn't have any of her blood related family there and she told me that she just felt so out of place (but I secretly found it humorous to observe)