we recently discovered that the cougarwhisperer aka slammy is my real father, after many years of searching and then giving up I finally meet up with him playing destiny online when I recognize the name CougarWhisperer to be the name of my true father. At least that's what my mother told me, little did she know that was only a cover name for his true name is Slammy. So feel free to add extra comments at my fathers despair.