Now this might work but Be Canadian. be totally passive aggressive. calmly continue to explain that his derogatory statements are entirely out of context and that if they prefer to be reported then thats fine by you. report for disrespect or offensive content, then dislike. the mods will see it. it happened to me to this morning. the important thing is that you remain calm and "Play nice". it would seem the whole "two wrongs dont make a right" rule is in effect. as long as you maintain self control (no matter how much you want to tell them off) they will simply be dealt with by a higher authority. Trust me im Canadian. Passive Aggression and self control works for many situations. (I have an example involving school but thats another story for #Offtopic) as far as him telling you to perform oral sex on him....kind of shows you the maturity level of certain members doesint it? its almost has much fun as "Find the vegan"