IMHO, the biggest issue between players in the VoG is poor communication. Everyone needs to recognize that although there may be groups that can kill Atheon in a couple of turns, or can easily kill the Templar without him teleporting, not many people who play can or have done it. So, when you get in a random group (via here or Destinylfg.com) don't expect perfection and a short raid. You may have made 10+ raids and it's easy for you, average players have done it 2 or 3 times. It's tiring to hear players shouting and cursing and then rage quitting because not everyone is perfect. Or, more common, is that teams need to realize that the Atheon encounter is one of those few game bosses that everything can be going as planned, and then someone gets glitched (or blind sided by a supplicant) and things can start to go sour. In these situations, it's important that people remain calm. This encounter is very unpolished in some aspects and can fail you at any time. But it can be finished with 4 people so long as the relic holder doesn't die with the relic. Even if you wipe a lot as a team, don't be mad. Talk about what's going wrong calmly and see what can be improved upon.