If you want people to play your way, bring your friends. I'm willing to bet from this post, most people aren't willing to play with you though. Chances are YOU were the one dying and then blammed everyone for actually being way ahead of you for YOUR death. Sorry someone made you miss out on a green engram you were going to decode for 1 weapon part. Dry your tears and deal with it kid, if you don't like how people are playing then simply play by yourself, the strikes even on lvl 24 are beyond easy.