OP, if you really want an environment where girls can feel empowered and supported, while playing video games, i hate to break it to you but their is already a community that has been going strong for years! Its called the PMS & H2o clan. They are a multi-platform gaming community that was formed by two sisters and has become a huge movement for females in the gaming community. the website is pmsclan.com the H2o part is the male-counterpart because just like you, the leaders of PMS wanted males to be apart and support female gamers. Just thought i'd give you a heads up so you didn't think you were in this alone! =]