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Edited by KingGreenTAkeem: 9/25/2014 10:07:40 PM
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Husband+Dad+Gamer = Forced Casual.

When your one (ONE) strange coin away from buying your first exotic and your wife and kids say "let's watch Captain America: The Winter Soldier Blu-Ray!" Outside response: Suuure! [spoiler]Inside response: Noooooooooooooooooooooo!!![/spoiler] P.S. Special shout out to ALL the whiners who got the loot caves and Queens Wrath Legendary gear NERFED. Thanks for slowing my 6 inch a hour march to Lvl 30 to A CRAWL.

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  • I hear ya! Constantly sharing the tv with wife and 10 month old here at home is rough. Plus the Army stationed me in Germany so the time difference makes it a challenge to play with all my buddies back home.

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  • I kno your feel bro... Thank your family for giving you extra life out of the game. And I hope your journey has been shortened by the latest patch. I agree that there needed to be changes, but I played for one day and received 4 exotic weapons, 3 exotic armor pieces and more coins and Shards than I know what to do with...The update pretty much broke the game. If you need help running the Weekly Heroic to get 9 coins hit me up, I'd be glad to help another gamer dad.

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  • you only get to play for awhile a day but you want to spend it shooting at a cave??? sorry your experience has been nerfed.

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    • In my case its "ok sure you can have the TV." *Pulls out Vita and continues to play* :)

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    • Yeah I found it's bad enough having a wife. I've convinced her to hold off on kids for a while. I just simply can't see the good in having kids outweigh the financial commitment and loss of personal time etc. But I still get annoyed when I'm way into a game and my wife wants to spend time with me. Then she proceeds to sit on her phone and scroll through FB and show me what she feels is funny while I sit there waiting.

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      • unhide your profile.

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      • Yea . I'm with you on that. My wife has been a Basic B since I have started my epic grind. She always says "just pause it" I try to explain that with this type of game you can't just pause it. Her response is "Do you know how stupid that sounds". Then I find myself in an epic grind argument that I can't win. Thank you Bungie!!

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        • This.... wait til November all the 9 year olds will be gone and leave for call of booty. We will be left with a game that's nerfed to the ground but at least the crybabies will be gone.

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        • This game is already super catered to casuals, you don't need to cut corners on an already thin game.

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          • Edited by anthrax99: 10/2/2014 3:17:38 PM
            same here, married with 3 small kids. i get in an hour or two everyday after work before dinner. then its tv with the fam, story time, put them to bed. then if im up for it and not too tired i either spend another hour or so watching some adult tv with the wife or putting in some more destiny time. i dont play nearly as much as i would like but i make time where i can find it. if i had my way id play all day and not work. last night i said fck it and stayed up past 12 to get in a couple of extra strikes even though i wake up at 6am for work. im tired today but im happy lol.

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          • I feel your pain man, I got my first grieving from the wife last night during the last phase of the raid..... my only reward for finishing was an ear full. =P

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          • I feel your pain I get daily abuse from the missus about destiny.

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          • Since your a veteran dad and gamer how about giving a rookie like me some pointers on balance. 21 with a 6 3/4 month old I try my best but I am honestly and terrified of the infant stage. I can had the toddler-kindergarten stage but then the rest is blank.how do u find the balance when your older and know your doing a good job as a parent

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            • I'm happy with being 20 and no kids. XD

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            • Trick, man cave. Separate tv and room for personal time away from the chaos.

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            • I have a wife and literally just happened to me.

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            • hey man im a kid of a certain age and i dig movies more then games so should you man.😎

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            • Hiya bud, like you, many of us are in this situation. If you want to join in with some likeminded folk who aren't interested in all these here whippersnappers squeaking and screaming, come on over to our house (www.gamingoldies.com) and make yourself known. We're a bunch of "mature" gamers who aren't ability focussed, we just enjoy the social aspect of gaming with friends. Look forward to seeing you.

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            • Gotta fight my girl for the controller, she's been fighting in the garden for hours!! I guess that's better than her hating it

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              • Or when your girlfriend constantly wants to hangout, close to being engaged but I know the struggle guys

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              • Edited by BrutalDeluxe: 9/29/2014 6:26:56 PM
                43 with a 6 and 3 year old, wife and job with 3 hours of commuting each day. Since I only play when they're all in bed it's like having another newborn in the house, Destiny is my new child and its wrecking my sleep! I'm just greatful I have so much in my life and if it means I can only grab a few hours (sleep or game) here and there then thats just fine, I wouldn't have it any other way.

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                • Edited by Wild Weasel 73: 9/28/2014 3:50:36 AM
                  I feel your pain! 41 yrs old. Married 15 years,father of two, work 14 hours a day! My issue is bandwidth! Every time I get to play it seems everyone in the house is streaming Netflix on their iPads or Xbox's all at once! Nothing like getting kicked back to orbit just moments before completing a strike! Not too mention the rest of my fire team probably doesn't appreciate my sudden departure!

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                  • Edited by SaintSamMills51: 9/29/2014 4:07:09 PM
                    Check out the Ancient Warriors clan. They have been around for seven years. Ancientwarriors.enjin.com

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                  • This. THIS is life for us!

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                    • Dads of Destiny is a good group, as is Ancient Warriors.

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                    • I feel you bud. What console you play on?

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