So yea, this is my second week in college and it was doing great for awhile, i met cool friends and the classes aren't that boring.
Well like always for every good thing a bigger bad thing happens, last week my buddies and i went to take our next class and well we met new people (which are awesome) and from that specific group well i met a girl. She is very social, amazing personality, very beautiful and sweet.
So like the proverbial idiot i am we started talking for a while, and well i got the feels for her, since i wanted to start fresh i wanted to try again with dating and i have to say i got my hopes up because she started texting me for a while and we always had a laugh.
Second week we sit close to each other and we talk a lot, but from her words came the word that I've wish she never have said: [b]She has a Boyfriend[/b].
Well thank she didn't knew i had feelings for her because everything would've gone to hell but i was really upset that day (hiding behind a smile obviously).
So flood i ask what should i do in a situation like this? I know i have to move on and shit but damn it was a really low blow this time.
[b]EDIT:[/b] Thanks guys, plenty of great advice has been given today. If i had millions of cookies I'll share with you guys first. I have to sleep i have college tomorrow. Thanks again. I'll update the thread with what happened.
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She wanted you to tell her to leave him ya dope.
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Stay close to her, let her complain about her boyfriend to you, then act the exact opposite of her complaints. She'll take notice and come around ;)
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I know I posted here before, but here I am again. You will keep updating, too? Check out my post on "How do you know when a girl is into you?" Still in progress, but I think it's a good story.
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[quote]#SadViolinMLGEdition[/quote] 360° no-bow?
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Wait it out......
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Edited by Inzombiak: 9/18/2014 4:55:49 PMNormally I would bust your balls for catching feelings after knowing her for 2 weeks but... I would be lying if I said I never did it, too. Advice: She's got a boyfriend and I hope you respect that. Don't try to win her over, don't try to snatch her from her boyfriend because the same way you get her could be the same way you'll lose her. Don't want karma to slap you right in the ass, right? No? Ok, good. Stick close and be her friend. Don't give her any special treatments that you wouldn't normally do to other friends just cause you like her. Girls can see right through that shit. Check out other girls while you're at it. Get that single college poon.
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Edited by A Tetromino: 9/20/2014 12:26:10 AMFind out what he's like, if he's a cu*t... fu*k his face up and give her a reason. If he's cool then leave it, if you really did like her you would want her to be happy no matter what. But 2 Weeks was pretty weak though.
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Try online dating. Might have better luck since you know the women there are 95% single. Not to mention you can get a idea of what the person likes and such. Met my gf online dating and been going strong for nearly 2 years.
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I don't want to share my fapping techniques, they're mine.
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Just be friends and if her and her boyfriend breakup swoop in and let her know how you feel
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it sounds like you are a freshman? let me tell you from experience that rarely do those relationships last, especially over 4 years...lol...so just be a good friend and only wish them the best. if they end up breaking up you can be a good friend, and if not she can probably introduce you to some of her friends. and so on and so forth. and if you ever meet this guy you wanna be his best friend...lol, because nothing will nix your time with her more than him hatin' on you.
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Ask her out. You needn't be persistent in an off-putting way - you can be quite charming as you persist. You: Can we go out some time? Her: I can't... I have a boyfriend. You: It's okay, he'll never know. Her: But *I'll* know. You: So will I. We can share it together as a secret. Her: [laughs] No! You: I don't think you'd be laughing if you weren't interested. Her: I'm laughing because this is ridiculous. You: You're laughing because you're too excited to contain your laughter. Now let's go. Her: [laughs] I am not going anywhere! You: We'll go for five minutes and then you can leave if you want to. Her: Okay. But ONLY five minutes! You: Cross my heart. Her: [laughs] Okay, let's go. This kind of persistence can be very winning with women - very attractive to them. And if you persist with a girl persistently (sounds funny, right? Persist persistently?), and she stays around for it, you can be assured that she's at least considering it... otherwise, she'd be uncomfortable and she'd be gone. Girls Chase.
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Steal her from him
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Find him and kill him
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I've been in that situation too many times. Taking a break from dating has helped me, but if you really want her, be a friend, and see where things go. Don't force anything. Let the flow go. And I want a cookie.
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[quote]If i had millions of cookies I'll share with you guys first.[/quote]What about those who are dying from malnutrition?
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Just ask her if you can drop by her place to study or something and ''accidentally'' leave something there like a hat and then see what kind of relationship it is and stuff because that's all I got!
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Watch any rom com where the girl has a bf but ends up with the main guy anyways. Then be that main guy.
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Get a baby, chicks dig a guy with a baby.
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Inb4 all cookies are gone
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You stank
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>In second week >love life >kek-lel.gif
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Run from your feelings, lest they betray you.
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#rekt
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Don't become her beta orbiter
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Transcend into WWII Super Saiyan God Master Chief with Superman prep wielding a Halo CE pistol and... [spoiler]stick it in all of their poopers[/spoiler]