TLDR at bottom if u dont care to read. Well i tried dating this girl that i didnt really "love" at first. She was a good friend n cool n all but i didnt like her like i thought. Over the course of 6weeks. Not much but 6weeks shit happened and i grew to have mad feelings for her tbh. Night before our 6week anniversary or watever you wanna call it, she dumped me. My mom had invited us to red lobster. So that ruined that. The next 3 to 5 nights were the worst. I didnt sleep. I didnt eat. I didnt talk to her at work. I was depressed. End of week 1, i was over it i put into my mind i didnt care anymore, she didnt matter, and i deleted every photo and quit caring. I now sleep fine again. Its been about 2 months. I still see her about every other day at work, with another employee who im pretty sure is the reason she dumped me Not mad though thats life, things happen and life moves on. After reading my story hopefully itll help u decide what you really wanna do, if you do want to turn her down. TLDR:This may be one of the better ways n still being kinda honest. "Im not ready to be in a relationship right now, i have otherthings on my mind and to take care of, i wouldnt be able to treat you right" or u can hit it and quit it...