I will tell the story. There was once a user called MyNameIsCharlie. He often shared small details of his life with us, like the fact he was married and has a son . One day a stream of harassing messages and thread replies involving what they would do to his wife and son drove him over the edge. He went to Deej, detailing what had happened. Deej responded with "if you didn't want this to happen and become a victim, you should not have done what you did" When Charlie asked for help in making it stop, Deej said no and then muted Charlie when he asked for help again. Charlie has since left b.net, and the account is probably still getting messages. Do you see why Deej is hated? He accuses victims and mutes those who ask for help.