[spoiler]I found out that she said the things she did just to get a reaction out of me because she was my first. Which apparently worked, ahhh! She was very open in the relationship and would have said something then if it were true and a problem. Not that it's "bent" so much as not completely straight anyway. Whatever the case, this was years ago and all is a-okay in that department Thanks for the replies haha. Very odd subject[/spoiler]