[quote]He came back our to our room and you know what he did? He cried. Cried harder then I ever heard a man cry in my life[/quote] [quote]Cried harder then I ever heard a man cry in my life[/quote] [quote]a man[/quote] See, this is where you are wrong. A man cries when his wife dies. A man cries when his dog passes away, or his friend is killed in a car accident. A man doesn't cry when he acts like a helpless piece of shit, and lets some woman take advantage of him. A real "man" would recognize that this woman is a waste of time and would move on. A real man doesn't let himself act like a little bitch for some chick he can't land. A real man can see when it won't work, and accept the hard truth that he has to move on. Do you know what your friend is? He's not a nice guy. He's a fukboi, a dingus, a bum. He is to blame, not her, because he let this happen. No one made him fall for her, no one forced him to keep buying things for her, and no one, but himself, made him act like the fool he is; your friend is a naive little boy who needs to realize that sometimes, you don't win the girl. Sometimes she just isn't going to be yours, and that's when you've got to buck up, nut up and shut up. You've got to notice when it just isn't worth your time and send them to the friendzone. So this is what I have to say about your question about nice guys, and how "nice guys finish last." Yea, a nice guy will always do well in life, but you can't expect your nice actions to automatically mean you have a right to something or someone. Buy her a gift? -blam!-in wonderful, but she doesn't owe you shit because she didn't ask for that gift. You did it out of the kindness of your heart, and if you think getting a gift for a lady, or doing her a favor or whatever gives you the rights to her heart, then you've got another thing coming. Guess what? She owes you jack shit. And brother, she will not waste her time giving it to you, because they have no reason to be nice to you. Do you get what I'm saying? You are not some almighty God, who can go around deciding what girl you want. You have got to fight for the right ones, and if they don't like you, you've got to recognize that she's a waste of your time. Some ladies will do you a favor and make it plain and simple fairly soon. Others might need some time to think about it, but if you won't bite the bullet and move on, there are girls out there that will use you till there's nothing left in your soul. Stop being a bitch, and grow up.