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[quote]He came back our to our room and you know what he did? He cried. Cried harder then I ever heard a man cry in my life[/quote] [quote]Cried harder then I ever heard a man cry in my life[/quote] [quote]a man[/quote] See, this is where you are wrong. A man cries when his wife dies. A man cries when his dog passes away, or his friend is killed in a car accident. A man doesn't cry when he acts like a helpless piece of shit, and lets some woman take advantage of him. A real "man" would recognize that this woman is a waste of time and would move on. A real man doesn't let himself act like a little bitch for some chick he can't land. A real man can see when it won't work, and accept the hard truth that he has to move on. Do you know what your friend is? He's not a nice guy. He's a fukboi, a dingus, a bum. He is to blame, not her, because he let this happen. No one made him fall for her, no one forced him to keep buying things for her, and no one, but himself, made him act like the fool he is; your friend is a naive little boy who needs to realize that sometimes, you don't win the girl. Sometimes she just isn't going to be yours, and that's when you've got to buck up, nut up and shut up. You've got to notice when it just isn't worth your time and send them to the friendzone. So this is what I have to say about your question about nice guys, and how "nice guys finish last." Yea, a nice guy will always do well in life, but you can't expect your nice actions to automatically mean you have a right to something or someone. Buy her a gift? -blam!-in wonderful, but she doesn't owe you shit because she didn't ask for that gift. You did it out of the kindness of your heart, and if you think getting a gift for a lady, or doing her a favor or whatever gives you the rights to her heart, then you've got another thing coming. Guess what? She owes you jack shit. And brother, she will not waste her time giving it to you, because they have no reason to be nice to you. Do you get what I'm saying? You are not some almighty God, who can go around deciding what girl you want. You have got to fight for the right ones, and if they don't like you, you've got to recognize that she's a waste of your time. Some ladies will do you a favor and make it plain and simple fairly soon. Others might need some time to think about it, but if you won't bite the bullet and move on, there are girls out there that will use you till there's nothing left in your soul. Stop being a bitch, and grow up.

Society is corrupted. Women are easily susceptible to social engineers, who manipulate and degrade the minds of the masses via TV and magazines. There's no turning this around, we're bound to be Babylon's predecessor. Supposed "men" today are so hardened. So demoralized, so detached from what integrity means, they cannot even witness how far society has fallen. In fact, they think we're progressing, while believing those who want to hold on to integrity, is holding them back. Good is evil, and evil good.

Dr. Dre's advice helps me get through my day.

[quote]My roommate[/quote]

"[i]I'm a nice guy[/i]"

I don't know what kind of upbringing you had but my mom always told me to be a man and always treat woman with respect. Was he getting her shitty gifts? A good rule of thumb is at least $300 a month if you truly like her. If you can't afford that then make them gifts from the bottom of your heart. I once drew a girl picture of us together outside her house. She said "Who are you and how do you know what my house looks like"? I said "Ever since we locked eyes at Victoria secret I knew you were the one. I got on the bus and followed you home". She was so shocked she ran away screaming. I tried to chase her but my asthma halted my progression. I asked the paramedics to drop me off at her house. Her dad answered and said "Get the -blam!- off my property fat boy". I thought to myself she was probably acting funny cause he beats her, and I was about to swing on him for her honor but then

[quote]And people said to him "Oh it's your fault you got used", "It's your fault for being so pathetic", "It's your fault for thinking you had a chance", "It's your fault" "It's your fault", "It's your fault". It's always the guy's fault, it is NEVER the girl's fault for being a shitty person. The guy is a cu­nt? It's the guy's fault. The girl is a cu­nt? Still the guy's fault. I'm amazed that women get a free pass to do whatever they want because they're women.[/quote]Because it [b]is[/b] his fault. Guys need to realize woman don't owe us anything, we're the ones who want to be with them, not the other way around. The only difference between a gentleman and a jerk is the jerk has the courage to tell a woman how he feels about her and what he wants from her. I am a [i]nice guy[/i], most of the stereotypes that apply to nice guy have also been applied to me [b]but[/b] I don't blame a woman if she wants to be with a dude who's better looking and more confident than me, it's her choice and not being able to accept that would just make me selfish. Not sure about you floodians but there's a way out for me, I've been working out since the start of the year and the results have been noticeable, shouldn't take more than 3 more months until I'm ripped as fu­ck. I'd suggest you floodians also do the same if you're currently not working out. Woman aren't that different to men than they make themselves out to be, they will also get in bed with a guy only because of his looks.

Uh, he kind of deserved it. Not only is it pathetic to dote on someone that doesn't like you in hopes that they will, but it's naive to think that people won't take advantage of you if you behave that way. Even if she did end up going out with him it would have been out of pity more than anything, and those relationships never last. She's a shitty person, but he should have known better. In a perfect world the people you love will all love you back, and no one will take advantage of one another, but we don't live in a perfect world.