This will beat be explained in a text I sent my friend. [quote]Kayla isn't quite as mature as I thought... When we were at state she went to a college party where she knew one person. She ended up smoking weed there (with people she didn't know all the while texting me) at her prom she was grinding on some guy. Just last week I couldn't go to a party at her house because I was in Texas and she said "fine I guess I'll have to invite some other guys then" (she didn't she was just trying to make me mad). Then I was working all last weekend and she said she "didn't want to hear my excuses, if I wanted to go see her, I'd go see her". What do I do?[/quote] We have been dating 3 months. It was 1 month when she smoked the weed. (It's not that she smoked weed it's that she did drugs really, I don't care if you guys go all Camnator and "it's not bad for you" it still bothers me) it was a little bit after that that she did the grinding at her prom. Fun fact: my prom was after that she didn't even attempt anything like that and I'm her boyfriend. If you need additional info just ask. I'd like some advice. ADDITIONAL INFO: a few weeks ago a guy asked her to have sex in a parking lot and she rejected him UPDATE 1: she is crying and saying she loves me. UPDATE 2: We are still together, however if she screws up again we won't be and she knows that. She thanked me for confronting her on this stuff and said I make her a better person.