This will beat be explained in a text I sent my friend.
[quote]Kayla isn't quite as mature as I thought... When we were at state she went to a college party where she knew one person. She ended up smoking weed there (with people she didn't know all the while texting me) at her prom she was grinding on some guy. Just last week I couldn't go to a party at her house because I was in Texas and she said "fine I guess I'll have to invite some other guys then" (she didn't she was just trying to make me mad). Then I was working all last weekend and she said she "didn't want to hear my excuses, if I wanted to go see her, I'd go see her". What do I do?[/quote] We have been dating 3 months. It was 1 month when she smoked the weed. (It's not that she smoked weed it's that she did drugs really, I don't care if you guys go all Camnator and "it's not bad for you" it still bothers me) it was a little bit after that that she did the grinding at her prom. Fun fact: my prom was after that she didn't even attempt anything like that and I'm her boyfriend.
If you need additional info just ask. I'd like some advice.
ADDITIONAL INFO: a few weeks ago a guy asked her to have sex in a parking lot and she rejected him
UPDATE 1: she is crying and saying she loves me.
UPDATE 2: We are still together, however if she screws up again we won't be and she knows that. She thanked me for confronting her on this stuff and said I make her a better person.
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Edited by Tu Chocolate Caliente: 6/5/2014 8:11:07 AMWell, you'll have to talk about it, no need to be rude at all just talk about everything that's happening, if you still has feelings for her and she does too (even to the point of rejecting other man, trust me in today's society that's somewhat rare) there is no need to fight, both of you have to figure out a way to sort things out in a good way. If things aren't going well both of you can take some time, now im not saying to break up but to give each other time to think things trough. Still, if she keeps doing stuff like that you might as well give her an ultimatum, you were sincere to her so she will have to understand that not every single day is about her. Weed isn't that bad, is the other drugs what you have to look out for.