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Edited by Rampant: 6/5/2014 1:40:46 PM
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I have girl troubles. UPDATED

This will beat be explained in a text I sent my friend. [quote]Kayla isn't quite as mature as I thought... When we were at state she went to a college party where she knew one person. She ended up smoking weed there (with people she didn't know all the while texting me) at her prom she was grinding on some guy. Just last week I couldn't go to a party at her house because I was in Texas and she said "fine I guess I'll have to invite some other guys then" (she didn't she was just trying to make me mad). Then I was working all last weekend and she said she "didn't want to hear my excuses, if I wanted to go see her, I'd go see her". What do I do?[/quote] We have been dating 3 months. It was 1 month when she smoked the weed. (It's not that she smoked weed it's that she did drugs really, I don't care if you guys go all Camnator and "it's not bad for you" it still bothers me) it was a little bit after that that she did the grinding at her prom. Fun fact: my prom was after that she didn't even attempt anything like that and I'm her boyfriend. If you need additional info just ask. I'd like some advice. ADDITIONAL INFO: a few weeks ago a guy asked her to have sex in a parking lot and she rejected him UPDATE 1: she is crying and saying she loves me. UPDATE 2: We are still together, however if she screws up again we won't be and she knows that. She thanked me for confronting her on this stuff and said I make her a better person.

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  • Edited by Buckysaurus: 6/5/2014 5:31:16 AM
    Rampant, I expect an honest response to mine. She's the definition of a bitc­h. She toys with you and messes around with other guys and does things that you'd consider to be unflattering for reasons probably unknown, possibly she's insecure and immature or just a straight bit­ch. Then she comes back to you knowing that you'll listen to her, care for her, and whatnot so she'll tell you that she loves you and she see's you two together forever which will pull you in because you have feelings for her so you'll stand by her side. I'll break down a few things from some examples... I had a friend who had a boyfriend like this. He would annoy the shit out of her, but he knew that she loved him so he would fool around and then come back to her knowing that she'll be there for him. It happened time and time again until she moved the -blam!- on. ( I should mention, this lasted for years) Here's a similar situation, albeit we weren't a couple. I liked this girl. We were really close friends. I was there every time a guy was a complete dick to her and would listen to her problems. Except she started to do things that annoyed me like hanging out with guys that I hated or stupid ass shit. She'd come back saying how much of assholes the guys were and how I was right. Always coming back and tell me how great of a friend I was and how much she cared for me. There just came a day when I gave up and told her that I was moving on. I hurt her feelings apparently and she flipped. These relationships are TOXIC. The ones where one person for some reason uses the other whether they know it or not. It drains one of the people to the point where they can't go along with it anymore. I'll leave you with this advice: If you take her back, be sure that you make it clear about this shit not happening again. If she does this shit again, it'll keep happening. Otherwise, just move on.

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