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Edited by Rampant:
6/5/2014 1:40:46 PM
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I have girl troubles. UPDATED
This will beat be explained in a text I sent my friend.
[quote]Kayla isn't quite as mature as I thought... When we were at state she went to a college party where she knew one person. She ended up smoking weed there (with people she didn't know all the while texting me) at her prom she was grinding on some guy. Just last week I couldn't go to a party at her house because I was in Texas and she said "fine I guess I'll have to invite some other guys then" (she didn't she was just trying to make me mad). Then I was working all last weekend and she said she "didn't want to hear my excuses, if I wanted to go see her, I'd go see her". What do I do?[/quote] We have been dating 3 months. It was 1 month when she smoked the weed. (It's not that she smoked weed it's that she did drugs really, I don't care if you guys go all Camnator and "it's not bad for you" it still bothers me) it was a little bit after that that she did the grinding at her prom. Fun fact: my prom was after that she didn't even attempt anything like that and I'm her boyfriend.
If you need additional info just ask. I'd like some advice.
ADDITIONAL INFO: a few weeks ago a guy asked her to have sex in a parking lot and she rejected him
UPDATE 1: she is crying and saying she loves me.
UPDATE 2: We are still together, however if she screws up again we won't be and she knows that. She thanked me for confronting her on this stuff and said I make her a better person.
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2 Replies>Fine I'll just invite some other guys then Should have left her ass right then and there. Bitches ain't shit.
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3 RepliesEdited by Buckysaurus: 6/5/2014 5:31:16 AMRampant, I expect an honest response to mine. She's the definition of a bitch. She toys with you and messes around with other guys and does things that you'd consider to be unflattering for reasons probably unknown, possibly she's insecure and immature or just a straight bitch. Then she comes back to you knowing that you'll listen to her, care for her, and whatnot so she'll tell you that she loves you and she see's you two together forever which will pull you in because you have feelings for her so you'll stand by her side. I'll break down a few things from some examples... I had a friend who had a boyfriend like this. He would annoy the shit out of her, but he knew that she loved him so he would fool around and then come back to her knowing that she'll be there for him. It happened time and time again until she moved the -blam!- on. ( I should mention, this lasted for years) Here's a similar situation, albeit we weren't a couple. I liked this girl. We were really close friends. I was there every time a guy was a complete dick to her and would listen to her problems. Except she started to do things that annoyed me like hanging out with guys that I hated or stupid ass shit. She'd come back saying how much of assholes the guys were and how I was right. Always coming back and tell me how great of a friend I was and how much she cared for me. There just came a day when I gave up and told her that I was moving on. I hurt her feelings apparently and she flipped. These relationships are TOXIC. The ones where one person for some reason uses the other whether they know it or not. It drains one of the people to the point where they can't go along with it anymore. I'll leave you with this advice: If you take her back, be sure that you make it clear about this shit not happening again. If she does this shit again, it'll keep happening. Otherwise, just move on.
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1 ReplyIf you got girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
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Bro. There are plenty. [b]PLENTY[/b] of fish in the sea. Ditch this drama queen and go chase some ladies brah. Drama is for teens and plebians.
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Edited by Dreadnought: 6/5/2014 2:42:24 PMDon't be captain save-a-hoe If you are at or below my age (24) the last thing you need to be doing is getting bogged down by women. You need to focus on yourself and your goals. Girls come and go, most are air heads, and the few that are not are focused on themselves and their end goals....much like you should be, don't waste time with women like this it gets you no where, will empty your wallet, and/or inhibits your ability to progress. Staying with that girl basically shows her how far she can go before you get pissed off; and from what it sounds like she has done so successfully 3 months is nothing...find a better girl or wait
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Edited by DukeOfStuffing: 6/5/2014 2:25:08 PMIf your lady friend is molesting other people at a dance, she isn't really your lady friend. Grow a pair and dump her. There are too many women to get hung up over one person who doesn't [i]really[/i] care about you.
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2 RepliesEdited by DeChief: 6/5/2014 2:17:56 PMLooks like you took what we said to heart. Just remember OP, if she -blam!-s up again, you must make her wish she had never lived.
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6 Replies[quote]UPDATE 2: We are still together, however if she screws up again we won't be and she knows that. She thanked me for confronting her on this stuff and said I make her a better person.[/quote] >mfw you stay with a girl who threatened to have sex with other men and thought about sucking off a hobo in a parking lot
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If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a ghost ain't one.
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Honestly talk to her, and she is unstable so be careful. Honestly I think she wants you to give her more attention.
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"If you havin girl problems, I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"
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[quote]ADDITIONAL INFO: a few weeks ago a guy asked her to have sex in a parking lot and she rejected him [/quote] Is this supposed to be a good thing?
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3 RepliesI feel bad for ya, son.
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2 Replies-blam!- that shit. She is clearly a handful now, 100 bucks says you'll get cheated on if you stay with her.
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Edited by swbwryfyk mayil: 6/5/2014 7:38:12 AMWeed isn't bad, it's the type of person that does it that makes it bad. If you're the type of person that goes around flaunting like "Oh look I smoke, I'm cool 420 blaze it." then you shouldn't be smoking weed. If you do it and just enjoy it responsibly that's fine.
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Edited by Tu Chocolate Caliente: 6/5/2014 8:11:07 AMWell, you'll have to talk about it, no need to be rude at all just talk about everything that's happening, if you still has feelings for her and she does too (even to the point of rejecting other man, trust me in today's society that's somewhat rare) there is no need to fight, both of you have to figure out a way to sort things out in a good way. If things aren't going well both of you can take some time, now im not saying to break up but to give each other time to think things trough. Still, if she keeps doing stuff like that you might as well give her an ultimatum, you were sincere to her so she will have to understand that not every single day is about her. Weed isn't that bad, is the other drugs what you have to look out for.
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Give her an ultimatum: either clean up her act, or get lost.
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She's young and so are you. It's gonna hurt from time to time if you stay together. It's gonna hurt if you split. Either way appreciate the time together and make sure you learn as you go. Better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all. Better to find love and continue to love though. It takes a ton of work either way...
