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5/19/2014 2:57:19 AM
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Why are you afraid to let girls know you're attraced to them?
Or, in the case of my bisexual and homosexual friends, guys?
I just don't understand this. Why be afraid? If they don't return the affection, so what? Get that disappointment done and over with. Why torture yourself by keeping it pent up and secret?
Just tell her. Just do it, man. What's the problem? She has a boyfriend? Well, shit, maybe she wouldn't if you had approached her before he did. Tell her anyway, just don't try to get with somebody else's girl.
Seriously, what's the deal? Talk to me Flood.
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Because then people start talking about it.
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I find giving relationship advice tedious, it all depends on the people involved.
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Like Duardo said, why go "Hey, I actually like you..." and wait for her to make the first move, ask her out somewhere. "Wanna go to X on Y?"
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47 RepliesIf anyone in this thread wants to apply that "Im a nice guy" garbage, refer to this article as to why that's bullsh[i]it[/i]. http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/?wa_user1=5&wa_user2=Weird+World&wa_user3=blog&wa_user4=recommended Once you white knights decide to join the real world things will look better for you.
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Edited by RomanGladiator7: 5/20/2014 5:35:26 PMMaybe if I actually met a girl in real life I could be able to tell her. But I've been cancelled on twice by this girl already, and waiting for the third time to meet her. Still have hope...
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Because I don't know whether they like me back or not. I don't want to leap of a cliff and fall to my death. If I knew how they felt, I could make my decision. But hey, you gotta ask/tell them to find out right?
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3 RepliesTelling someone that you're attracted to them is about as gay as it gets. If two people are dating, respect their relationship. If someone is willing to cheat or break off their relationship for someone else, that person is not worth being in a relationship to begin with. If a girl is single, just start talking to her. See what she's like. If you like her, add her on Facebook and shoot her a message. Eloquently try and grab her number, or skip step two altogether and try and nab her number initially. If you make it that far, you're pretty much set. If you don't, oh well -- at least you're not dwelling on an uninterested girl.
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I'm not afraid and I haven't been attracted to any girls I've seen in months. I do prefer their company over guys though.
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Or instead of putting everything out there, just ask him/her out.
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I'm not afraid. I've told one of my good friends that I find her pretty and she didn't give a shit
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11 RepliesWell for us bi or gay guys. Its scary because how some people can react. You can't just walk up to a guy and say "hey I think you are cute, wanna grab a coffee?" Well you could, but its probably not a good idea
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>Wait too long >Gets boyfriend >Try to do it while single >Get rejected >Two weeks later >Another boyfriend Well -blam!- this.
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Edited by Stalwart: 5/19/2014 4:47:48 PMBecause telling someone you're "attracted to them" sounds soooooo stupid. sounds very beta to me. I'll tell them I like them at the right time though.
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Because that **** hurts, man
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Kill myself
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8 RepliesI'M USUALLY FRIENDS WITH GIRLS THAT I'M ATTRACTED TO, AND I DON'T WANT TO RUIN A FRIENDSHIP.
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Because I know they don't feel the same way back.
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I don't need to tell them to know they don't feel the same, I wouldn't be attracted to me if I was someone else so I don't expect anyone else to be.
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I'm not, I usually tell girls I think they're pretty/cute within a few days of talking to them and if they don't return the feelings we end up staying friends or we go our separate ways. I think it's because I think of myself as being attractive that I do this though.
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I really can't put it into words.
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3 RepliesWell maybe it's because every time I have done that, it's resulted in vicious bullying.
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Yo Homeboy, easier said than done
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I'm not, I just do it straight up.
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1 ReplyBecause I'm worried that she won't return the sentiment.
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3 RepliesBecause I'm not sexually attracted to anybody.
