Ok so there's this girl I work with. I like her a lot. She's cute, seems smart, and just seems to have most of what I look for. I really want to ask her out and I know I can. However I'm worried about dating a coworker especially since this girl works in the same department I do. Also if she turns me down it would be awkward seeing her at work. Any advice?
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I had the sameish issue awhile back with a guy (I'm a girl). We were in the same musical production and were both leads. We were interested in each other but as time went on things just went downhill and it ended really badly. I know that you like her and want to date her, but honestly dating someone who is your coworker is a bad idea unless the both of you are in it 200% for the long haul. It just isn't a good idea to date someone who you work with, because then your business becomes everyone else's business at your place of employment (trust me on this). Wait and just be friends with her. If things are meant to be then it'll happen naturally. However, if nothing happens don't be discouraged! The one that's meant for you is out there; just be patient! :)