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4/27/2014 9:07:55 PM
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I need girl advice.
Ok so there's this girl I work with. I like her a lot. She's cute, seems smart, and just seems to have most of what I look for. I really want to ask her out and I know I can. However I'm worried about dating a coworker especially since this girl works in the same department I do. Also if she turns me down it would be awkward seeing her at work. Any advice?
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17 RepliesI had the sameish issue awhile back with a guy (I'm a girl). We were in the same musical production and were both leads. We were interested in each other but as time went on things just went downhill and it ended really badly. I know that you like her and want to date her, but honestly dating someone who is your coworker is a bad idea unless the both of you are in it 200% for the long haul. It just isn't a good idea to date someone who you work with, because then your business becomes everyone else's business at your place of employment (trust me on this). Wait and just be friends with her. If things are meant to be then it'll happen naturally. However, if nothing happens don't be discouraged! The one that's meant for you is out there; just be patient! :)
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I truefully dont know how your fealing but me being only 14 could and would say get to know her then ask her out and i know for a fact that when you do deside to ask her out if you got to know her you will find out what she likes and dislikes and if you impress her she might ask you out you never no. But and i mean but make sure she hasnt got a guy already because you would cause a big amount of aekwardness between you just make sure some how. And good luck
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Grow a pair and be straight up with her.
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[quote]However I'm worried about dating a coworker especially since this girl works in the same department I do. Also if she turns me down it would be awkward seeing her at work. Any advice?[/quote] I was in the same situation not too long ago, and I also thought it was going to be awkward seeing her at work. But it actually wasn't all that bad. If she turns you down, just keep acting like you normally do around her and keep it cool, like if it's no big deal. Worked for me. Now she talks to me more than before.
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5 RepliesJust ask her out. If she says no, cool. Whatever. If you date, don't act like you're dating when you're at work together. Be professional.
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If under 21, do it. Whatever. If over 21, why the hell would that make it awkward if she turned you down. Act like adults already...
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1. Quit your job 2. Ask her out ------------------------ 1. Force her out of the job by outperforming her and starting rumors pertaining to her behavior 2. Ask her out
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4 RepliesSCREW THE AWKWARDNESS. IF SHE TURNS YOU DOWN SHOW UP AT WORK THR NEXT DAY LOOKING BETTER THAN YOU EVER HAVE BEFORE AND WHEN SHE WALKS UP TO YOU PUT YOUR HAND OVER HER FACE AND PUSH HER TO THE SIDE AS YOU SWAG WALK.
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2 RepliesDid Disney teach you anything? True love man, go for it.
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1 ReplyHow serious are you about this job? If you don't plan on staying there forever you really have nothing to lose.
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1 ReplyDon't date a Co-worker man. Trust me odds are it will end and then it would be just terrible to go to work.
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7 RepliesGo for it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
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You can do it bro. Usually I'd say it's not the best idea to date a coworker. And that's still true. But I believe that you should get out there and build up your confidence. So do eeeeet
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Don't make it awkward. Just try to get on with your life if she turns you down. Hope this helps.
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Then why not develop a friendship with her first? If you two hit it off and there seems to be something more, go for it. Not every relationship has to start with coffee, and not every coffee date needs to lead to a relationship.
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Ask her to go on a date with you. Be up front. Don't spill your heart out. They run from people who do that.
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Ask her out, you clearly like her very much don't let something silly stop you.
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I wouldn't do it too risky
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4 RepliesNope.
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Quit your job and ask her out.
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2 RepliesUnzip and you'll be ace.
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You've already been given the Toast/Envelope method by another user, do you really need any more advice :P
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2 RepliesAm I the only one who read the title as grill advice?
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1 ReplyDon't come out of the blue and ask her a question like that, hint to her that you're interested and you'll be able to tell from her reactions whether she's interested too. And if she isn't, you don't have to deal with rejection.
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3 RepliesUnless it's your career workplaces are the best places to get with girls. Have a mate who's worked in a bunch of pubs/restaurants and he shags like half the female staff there. Doesn't give a phuck or act like it's awkward afterwards at all.
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1 ReplyJust keep your relationship professional at work if you decide to go through with it. I think quite a few employers frown upon this sort of thing though.
