When you see the object of your affection in your dreams, is it someone you see a lot or someone you think about a lot?
If you're a loveable loser like me, then that probably isn't the same thing: three of the four women I've ever loved or do love are on the other side of the Atlantic. And maybe it's because I'm far more a visual guy (memory, learning, etc.), but because I'm not physically with them most or any of the time, I don't see them in my dreams a lot. Which I hate. But I can't control it. Instead, I get crushes from work, current and old. Nice, but not as romantic as telling the woman I love I had a dream about her last night. :/
Just me?
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Edited by Ghost of Reach: 1/8/2014 1:27:54 PM
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I could see the annoyance. Thankfully mine is both. I both see and think about Travis the most. xD However, I have had dreams about a boy that I had a crush on in Elementary school probably once every 6 months. I liked him for like 5 years, and the only reason that I stopped 'liking' him was because it just wasn't going to happen. xD But, I see where he is in life today and I'm glad I avoided that bullet! Lol.
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Both:)
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I don't have dreams, or none that I remember at least.
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I think the last dream I had was about a week or so ago, and the only thing I can remember about it is that one of my Australian friends was there. I haven't really ever had a dream about someone I like, except for a few months ago when I met the current girl I have a massive crush on.
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Edited by Nul Arc: 1/3/2014 10:36:39 PMCan you put #feels, so others don't walk I to this thread and be blindsided by the feels. OT: it tends to be people I think about a lot, but occasionally see, so a mix of both.
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My dreams usually concern the past. People i used to have crushes on. People i used to be friends with. Places i used to go to. Things i used to do. All things i [b]used to[/b] see, think about or do a lot but don't at all anymore; it's weird.
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What's a (wo)man?
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This thread.
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[i] [/i]
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"When you see the object of your affection in your dreams" The only people in my dreams are usually my family or old friends. And I've never been in a relationship or designated someone as an object of my affection. I've had a number of crushes but I've never even told them... :(
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Is see and think about her a lot. We're pretty good friends, too. But she has other even better friends, some boys. So I'm out of luck. ):
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If I have feelings for someone, they usually have about as much chance of appearing in the dream as anyone else
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You seem to be worrying about not having a relationship a lot. Don't worry so much. Just do what you do and everything will fall into place into place on its own.
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I don't dream about women in romantic/sexual way ever
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I dream about random girls. Either really famous girls or girls I know from school. Its weird... and awesome until I wake up.
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Every time I touch I get this feeling and every time we kiss I swear I could fly
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I don't really dream
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Oh, and the other -blam!-ing night, I saw my -blam!-ing ex from university whom I haven't spoken to in 5 years. What the -blam!-, brain?
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Don't need to dream about her, she hogs up enough of the bed as it is xD
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Errrr... Well I do, but she's different than your average human woman :/
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Edited by Ad Hoc: 12/31/2013 10:30:19 AMAw, I'm sorry Tartan. I know those feels :/ I don't have a woman of my dreams. I thought I did at one point, but I was wrong. I still dream about her sometimes, which is weird because I haven't talked to her in 4 years. Every dream goes something like this: I try to kiss her, or just be with her in general, and she always says [i]No[/i]. Always. Every dream about her begins with me feeling absurdly happy to see her, and ends with me being destroyed because she doesn't love me. It's weird because I rarely ever think about her when I'm awake. I guess I still have feelings for her.
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Meh. The woman of my dreams doesn't exist. So it doesn't matter.
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Is there a 'both' option? Because I see her a lot (and talk as well), but I can't stop thinking about her... And all the songs I hear are starting to make sense again!
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Edited by Jim the Admin: 12/29/2013 11:38:47 PMThe woman of my dreams skipped town. She moved when school started.
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Same thing for me.