So when I speak my mind, it is no indication and does not relate to me in the slightest because this is an anonymous setting. You're using the fact that this is on the internet as a scapegoat and shield so you cannot be chastised by anything that you might have said before on here at one time. Same with what Camm said, if you speak about something tactfully and straightforward on the internet, you should be ready for it to be brought up against you at a later time. "Never say anything on the internet that you will not admit to having said if you were saying it to your grandmother."