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12/7/2013 3:19:25 AM
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So it's not long-winded:
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1. You can be one of the best posters here, or one of the worst. There's times when I really agree with something I've seen from ya, then there's other times when you post completely oblivious or biased things and pretend that you didn't, reversing the argument to make the other person look worse than you.
2. You like to preach that you don't act like what a lot of people have sometimes pointed out you do act like and you're quick to turn back criticism with criticism instead of just handling it maturely, you sometimes will act like a very bratty teenage girl basically.
3. Your bitchiness is probably one of your most obvious facets, if you stopped to just reply to something without acting snarky or condescending, you could be a lot better. But then you reply to someone and of course stoop to their level against someone else and devolve it into namecalling, cursing, rhetoric and misunderstandings.[/spoiler]
I'm guilty of some things myself and I've admitted to them before, but you still have a lot of maturing to do if your time here is any evidence of your past behavior. This is also of course guessing if you'll even reply to this slightly seriously, if you won't say something like "Orly?" or "K" for instance.
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My text on here hardly reflects my maturity as an individual in the real world but you wouldn't know that, would you? I don't have to prove anything to anyone EVER on the internet and especially on this forum. That's why you're muted.
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You shouldn't act like someone you're not just because this is in a virtual space. That's no excuse for your past words and speech, attempting to excuse it with a sweeping statement is the exact thing I was talking about. You still replied to me though.
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Edited by CAMMCAM: 12/7/2013 3:29:03 AMYou misunderstood... My text on here hardly reflects the maturity that you think I have or should have. I'm a -blam!-ing 28 year old wife and mother. You think half of the shit on this website applies to my daily life? Just because YOU don't get what I say, when I say it, doesn't mean... shit, actually.
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So anything you say here cannot be held against you as a clear window into your true thoughts and motivations because it's on the internet? Anytime you speak your mind it never has any actual reflection onto who you are? I'll let you know if I completely don't understand something, most often it just seems that I'm perceiving something differently, which is nothing to fault anyone for.
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Edited by CAMMCAM: 12/7/2013 3:36:11 AM[quote]Anytime you speak your mind it never has any actual reflection onto who you are[/quote] AGAIN.. you misunderstand. It has no actual reflection on who YOU think I am or should be.
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I've never said that you should be someone that I take you as, that was never my point to make. I just said: [quote]You shouldn't act like someone you're not just because this is in a virtual space. That's no excuse for your past words and speech[/quote] To quote your DID thread, the amount of people you said yourself that suffer from Dissociative Identity Disorder on this site seems to be staggeringly high. And are their parents aware of it at all? If what happens here is no reflection of who you are in the real world as you say, you should not say something that you wouldn't say to someone else if you were in a related conversation to the material at which you're speaking about. Anything that you have then said in the past, can either just be something you spout off in a spur of the moment decision that doesn't relate to you as a person, or it's what you would say IRL in the same situation.
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[quote]You shouldn't act like someone you're not just because this is in a virtual space.[/quote] LOL Yeah, everybody, act like your mature business self all the time forever, no matter the setting.
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I didn't say you could never laugh or talk about something you don't find funny or interesting, but pretending to say something that you wouldn't IRL or anything else qualifies as what I'm saying.
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[quote]I didn't say you could never laugh or talk about something you don't find funny or interesting, but pretending to say something that you wouldn't IRL or anything else qualifies as what I'm saying.[/quote] Which is bullshit. This is an anonymous setting. It's not personal, it's not real, and there is no reason to act how I would in real life in a setting which is not representative of such. I'll wager that you don't go up to random strangers on the street and start conversations with them. Better stop posting on forums now.
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So when I speak my mind, it is no indication and does not relate to me in the slightest because this is an anonymous setting. You're using the fact that this is on the internet as a scapegoat and shield so you cannot be chastised by anything that you might have said before on here at one time. Same with what Camm said, if you speak about something tactfully and straightforward on the internet, you should be ready for it to be brought up against you at a later time. "Never say anything on the internet that you will not admit to having said if you were saying it to your grandmother."
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[quote]So when I speak my mind, it is no indication and does not relate to me in the slightest because this is an anonymous setting. You're using the fact that this is on the internet as a scapegoat and shield so you cannot be chastised by anything that you might have said before on here at one time. Same with what Camm said, if you speak about something tactfully and straightforward on the internet, you should be ready for it to be brought up against you at a later time. "Never say anything on the internet that you will not admit to having said if you were saying it to your grandmother."[/quote] It DOESN'T relate to you if you don't let it. The Internet is a place of anonymity if you aren't a complete idiot about it. I say way ruder shit on here than I would next to my grandmother because... guess what? I'm not next to her. Every personal setting has a proper way to behave in because your actions are directly linked to you. This is the Internet. There is NO link unless you WANT there to be. You don't know who I am, and you never will, so I can act however the Hell I want to here and there will be no repercussions.
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I find that dishonest and two-faced honestly. If I'm speaking to someone that I've begun to know and call a friend, I'm going to speak to them like I would if it was face to face. Simply because there's a barrier that separates real tone and dialect from what we would experience in reality, is not an excuse to behave differently simply because you can. If you're going to act like someone else on the internet just because it's the internet and has no "link" to who you actually are, then I would hope I never become friends or acquaintances with someone that believes they can say whatever they want without reason simply because everyone is usually anonymous.
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Implying short replies in shitpost threads deserve to be windows into my inner being. You really need to learn how to act appropriately for different situations. There's no reason to hold yourself to a standard when nobody is paying attention. It's just pointless pressure/stress.
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That first part never even popped into my head. I'll do what I feel like doing, is that okay with you?
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By all means. 'tis what the Internet is all about.
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And theres the main account -blam!- off camm camm
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lol wut Are you saying I'm Cam Camm? This would be the first time I've ever been accused of being an alt or having an alt.
