So I was talking with my friends today, and they're quite a bit sexually experienced. I'm still a virgin so I tend to ignore their conversations when it involves sex, but they dragged me into one today. One of the, said if I was having sex, I would be submissive, and be on bottom. They snickered a bit after he said that. I didn't know how to respond, but I couldn't see myself arguing against him.
Is being a guy on bottom during sex bad? Is there some social stigma to it?
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What a stupid fucking thread.
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Nah, way more fun IMO, nothing wrong with it as long as your both into it!
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No it's right to be at the bottom it's wrong to be on the top
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Are you talking about cowgirl or pegging?
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I do not see how that would be bad, everyone can do whatever they want. I hate how our society labels things and tries to make them seem wrong. I am a virgin and do not really care to discuss sexual topics, so I have never heard anything bad about it.
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trying to cover up your old shame by changing the tags, huh ian
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being on bottom is really dank sometimes when a girl knows how to ride. It's not really submissive to let her ride, but if she controls you during sex you are being dominated. Don't let her ride the whole time, switch around though and see how it feels to be the most important thing in her world right now.
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No. There's nothing that says a man has to be on top and in control.
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Yes, the bible only allows for sex in the missionary position.
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I'm a power bottom.
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Your friends are virgins too, or very inexperienced. My girlfriend's on top most of the time we have sex, she loves it. Makes her go wild. I don't feel submissive at all lol, I have one hand around her waist dragging her back and forth across my dick and either fingers in her mouth/hand around her throat/pulling her hair back while I bite her neck, all while I'm talking dirty to her. Then after she's had hers, I flip her into doggy and pound that behind like there's no tomorrow. Women can't be dominant in sex, lmao. Unless the guy's a beta phag like OP.
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I'm not trying to point out anything stupid, witty, sarky etc. OP, but... ...you don't find it weird talking to your mates about sex?
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No it isn't bad. But there is a lot of people that believe being on the bottle is a sign of submissive. Like the guy in your post. Which I have no problem with but that's for you to decide?
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No, it isn't bad at all. If they think it's bad then they've never experienced it.
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No. I do it all the time.
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You can still be in control if you're on the bottom...and it's quite more pleasurable than being on top in my opinion.
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Edited by edableshoe: 5/20/2014 9:13:55 PMohmahgod its some of the best dude. cowgirl is great, but reverse is even better. if you find a chick that rides, then let her ride man. Edit: Sounds like your friends are stuck doing missionary all the time, probably shoving their tiny hotdogs down a hallway.
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Nah, let the girl do the work, sit back and enjoy
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No, women actually get more stimuli from that position. You want call backs and pancakes, not your friend's dumb ass approval.
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Let the girl do all the work
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Edited by Vien 'Quitonm: 5/20/2014 6:04:40 PMSo if I mate with my boyfriend, should we perform the ritual sideways? Edit: This thread was bumped...
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-blam!-ing lol, I loved this thread. Who bumped it? I wanna shake his hand.
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This thread is so -blam!-ing stupid.
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If a guy has sex with a girl but is on the bottom it means he is gay. FACT.
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When I had a GF we did everything. Switched places and all kinds of stuff. it was wild.
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Why is this even a thread? Since I'm here, I guess I might as well answer... Absolutely not. Have you ever been on top for the duration? I mean, obviously not, but there comes a point where your arms really start to hurt. And it's terrible.