People really don't. I know there's all these sex positive people out there now days trying to tell you you need to have sex with as many people as you can before you get married, but I just feel like thats a horrible way to live (not to judge anyone else). Giving that away to any and everyone is such a waste when you could share it only with the one person you love.
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So right. It's funny. If you study the suicide rates and depression rates in sexually active teens versus non sexually active teens, it's actually higher in those that have had sex. If that's not a warning sign I don't know what is. It might be a physically healthy way to live but it isn't a mentally healthy or emotionally healthy way to live.
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I'm really not surprised. It's definitely not a healthy way to live mentally. I'm just so glad I found someone that feels the same way. In today's society that's something that's incredibly rare. I just don't think humans are meant to have pointless sex with everyone and their mother.
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Well wish me luck. I still have yet to find a suitable m8 n,-
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You definitely will. It was when I stopped looking for one that I found someone for the first time. I was completely ready to throw away my virginity before I had met her because nothing had ever worked out and I had just given up hope. I still wish you luck though friend!
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Haha yeah. I actually enjoy being single at the moment. I mean most of my closest friends are girls and I get to spend time with them without being uncomfortable. I've decided ill wait till university before I start looking for a gf. Only a year from now. There's no rush, life's just begun.
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Thank you. Finally someone that sees it the se way haha I agree!
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Lmao I view life in so many ways the rest of the world doesn't. Honestly when groups of people start moving one way, that's when you should be asking questions and looking for answers. I don't like "going with the flow"
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Yeah I agree!! I also personally don't understand the urge that so many young people have for all this sorts of things haha (alcohol, sex,etc.) like seriously.. Why such a hurry? Rushing it is never better.