Because, from what I've seen, if they are doing their job, they're doing a piss-poor job at it. I remember as a child, if I was disrespectful to any adult or anyone older than me, my dad would spank me or my mom pinched my ears and made me do more chores by hand once we got home. I hated it. Yet, even though it made me resent my parents, it taught me to respect my elders.
Why am I asking this? I was at the college in this town and a mother was with her 8 year old son. I was pretty much just relaxing with my friends, but I kept hearing the sound of someone screaming. It was the 8 year old boy and he was throwing a tantrum in public. Rather than pulling her son away to tell him not to do it, the woman pulled out her iPhone and gave it to her son, which he promptly threw on the ground and continued complaining. You can guess that many people were watching.
Now, when I did something like that, which I did often, my mom often pulled me to the side where no one would see and gave me an ultimatum: Keep doing that and do extra chores for the whole week, no video games or fun time, or to shut up. I always chose the latter.
I've seen some other instances in my life where parents were pretty much relying on their phone to keep their kid quiet in public. Hell, I didn't even get my own cell phone until I was in 10th grade and I got it just before I got my dad's old car since he was retiring. Why are parents relying on technology to raise their child? There's never a good substitute for a good parent. Parents nowadays lack backbone. They're being bossed around by their own kids and aren't even getting the respect they deserve. Why are parents spoiling their kids to be brats and ask why they're being like that?
Parents should do their job correctly, and then they won't ask why their kids are disrespectful.
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No one's really interested in your "strict" childhood.
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You sound like every other generation ever. People have been saying this exact same shit (obviously without the cellphone bit) since the dawn of what we would call human intelligence. Every generation thinks that it and its previous generations were better than the ones that came after it.
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*Wants to start a related topic on how we should have licenses to have kids seeing as we need a license to drive a car and a child is infinitely more complex and potentially devastating.*
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Obviously that's a large generalization, so it doesn't hold much merit. Yes, some children are unruly, but that's how it's always been. I do, however, have one point in your post i'd like to respond to separately. The whole "respect your elders" deal. Listen, if you wish to disagree with what i'm about to say, by all means you're free to, but I just have a little bit to say on that. The main jist of it? You don't have to respect everyone strictly because they're older than you. It's usually expected that the more you age the wiser you get, but that doesn't apply to everyone. Hell, some older folk can be just as stupid as the generation raised beneath them, or just flat out awful people. I give respect based on the individual at hand. If you're an asshole, I don't give a shit how many years you've been living on this rock, i'm not going to bother showing you respect. Of course, I figure most people have this attitude by a certain age, so I probably just rambled without purpose...oh well, keeps me busy. :)
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Some parents are bad, and some are good. Don't say that parents don't do their jobs anymore without some evidence, because that's a pretty sweeping statement.
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I was a terrible kid growing up, made my sister not want to have kids when she had to babysit me, and a lot of my grade school teachers hated me and I was put into special behavior curbing classes because of how much of a pain I was. Now though, I'm quiet, conservative, respectful, and almost never talk back to my parents except when my dad acts like an asshole or they demand something of me that isn't possible. But I would say because I was so bad earlier, that I'm a lot better now.
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Edited by Donkey_Hotay: 8/13/2013 6:24:50 AM[quote]The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.[/quote] -Socrates [469–399 B.C] Things don't change.
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I saw a commercial the other day for some tablet that has a parental block that will activate after a certain length of time, making your kid put it down by himself so "you don't have to."
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Dude, we're good parents. Don't you see how many children post here each day?