I didn't switch questions halfway through, I postulated an either/or question for you. If you'd taken the time to read the whole post you would have seen this. Don't bitch me out because you fuked. So basically you do talk to your friends in the same manner you do to people here when they smoke. They must be desperate to keep you around if you belittle them in that way, because I sure as shit wouldn't. And before you even start, I don't care if a friend doesn't approve of my smoking, but if they're going to call me a piece of shit and tell me to kill myself they won't be my friend for very long.