I don't think it's okay, but I don't think it's as big of a deal as you make it out to be. Then again, I'm not a girl who has her appearance critiqued every single day. Though, honestly, if I was, I think I'd not give a shit. I don't know what you aim to accomplish with this thread. Do you want the behavior to stop? If not, do you just want them to admit they are being assholes?