This girl started talking to me about a year ago via Skype. First it was just chatting and she messaged me every once in a while. After a couple months she wanted to Skype so I Skyped with her while I played video games (we're both in high school). She was good company and I thought she was a cool person, but not a lover. Also, she was in a relationship. They had been going out for about 7-8 months when their relationship starting going sour. I'd help her through her hard time when they'd fight and she lost interest in her boyfriend long before they ended up breaking up. After 11 months of going out, they break up. I realize around this time that she really wants me and because she's really flirty. She messages me almost every day and we Skype almost every day. She told me she has liked me for about 8 months.
About a week later we hit it off and make out at the movies. On another occasion we hook up again. Now, about a month in, we went to the movies and she acted very weird. She wanted to sit next to her best friend and not me. She'd barely try to make conversation and would barely talk to me. She had almost her entire back turned toward me most of the movie.
It's been a week and a half since then and we haven't Skyped since, she messages me every couple of days and we talk for a good 10 minutes before she stops answering. I keep asking her if anything is wrong and she says no. I told her I think she's ignoring me and she said she's been really busy because her best friend is moving out 2 days from now. She says that I shouldn't think that and she says she hasn't turned her back on me, or that she doesn't think so. Also, I know for a fact her friend is moving out in 2 days because I know her.
What happened? Is that a proper excuse? Why haven't we Skyped like before? Her closest friends are the girl that's moving away and me, so why doesn't she message me anymore? She is an introvert and almost never makes new friends or socializes, so I don't think she's seeing other guys. She also has a cheating parent and has suffered through a lot, so I don't think she'd cheat on someone. Also she used to cut and she is very insecure. She has lots of personal problems.
What do I do? I want to hang out with her again, but I feel like she doesn't want me anymore because of how she acted at the movies. Should I hang out with her and ask her in person. We're not going out (she said she wants to be single for a while) so I don't want to seem clingy. Also she said shee would tell me if she got with someone else.
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OP, my advice to you is to just wait it out. Taking any further action might be like kicking a beehive; you DON'T want to do it. If something is wrong, she will eventually tell you. Good luck and Godspeed.