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4/26/2013 7:38:29 PM
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Should you tell a girl you like her even if she has a BF?
Should you? Is it a smart move? I've liked her for a long time now... So long I'm embarrassed to say.
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I'd bang another girl if she had a boyfriend, but that would be harsh on the other guy, so no. Nah bro, don't do it. You'll put yourself in an awkward position.
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3 RepliesYes, screw the other guy. It's a dog eat dog world. Maybe she will like you better.
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When people tell my girlfriend they like her, she tells me, and then we both laugh at that person together. Just letting you know.
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I know it's no good to hear it now, but you should tell someone you like 'em pretty much ASAP if you want something to come of it. That way, there's no time wasted if the feeling isn't mutual. Also, Recon's post.
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2 RepliesYou should tell a girl you like her when ..... you start to like her. Years later? Ridiculous. When she has a boyfriend? Ridiculous.
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1 ReplyEdited by Recon Number 54: 4/26/2013 8:44:08 PMIf you are both friends, then she likely knows that you "like her". Verbalizing it would only make things more awkward. I'll give you a personal example. I am married, there is another married couple that have been close friends to my wife and I for a very long time. To varying degrees and over the years, I have found my friend to be attractive and have had an ongoing.... "crush" on her. I even suspect that the attraction may be mutual. It would be foolish, disrespectful (to my wife, my friend and her husband) for me to say something. Nothing good would or could come of speaking about it. So, I keep it to myself. We (as human beings) can't control who we are attracted to. We CAN control our actions regarding that attraction. And in many instances, we should control those actions and keep our "feelings" to ourselves.
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3 RepliesYou should've told her when you first start to feel that way. But I'm assuming you're high school/college. I didn't have any qualms telling a girl I liked her if she was dating some other guy. If I want something, I'll go get it. What is the boyfriend going to do? Fight me? LOL. It isn't like she is married or anything. Go get dat ass bro.
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yeah... don't be a douche about it though.
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1 ReplyWhat does her owning a Battlefield game have anything to do with you liking her?
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I wouldn't. I tell my close friend I love her but we have been friends for 5 years and she knows I love her as a friend and wouldnt do anything to get between them. TBH it would feel weird if we ever dated. so your situation is different as you like her as more than a friend.
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4 RepliesI have before. I had no intentions on being her boyfriend, but I did it anyways. I also blatantly told her that I was looking down her shirt and that I could see most of both her tits. She didn't really care. During a field trip around that time, she started randomly grabbing my leg on the bus while I was half asleep. We've been friends for over a decade, it's all good.
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1 ReplyYes. In fact, tell her she looks like the kind of girl that could use two boyfriends. Lay the pipe down man.
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Pillage and plunder.
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Edited by brandorobot: 4/26/2013 8:01:11 PMWho tells people that they like them? You show interest and if the person is interested as well you'll know and go from there. Judt saying "hey I like you" sounds like kids stuff.
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What Camcamm said. You shouldn't have waited such a long time to tell her, you should have when you first started to like her. Why the hell didn't you?
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You should only ever tell a girl you have any feelings about her if she is available. Would you like it if some other guy came up to a girl you were dating and said he liked her? I doubt it.
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No, you could risk trouble with the boyfriend.
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Edited by ChorrizoTapatio: 4/26/2013 7:47:28 PMThe way I always think about these situations is, "would you like this to happen t you?'. So, if you had a girlfriend would you want another boy telling her that he likes her? Same goes for cheating I guess. Would you do something with a girl who is in a relationship? I wouldn't. If you ended up dating that girl what would make you think she wouldn't do it to you?
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I would say just tell her when it seems like a good time. To not tell her just because of some guy she probably wont even talk to in a year is silly.
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its a mean move to try and take some ones gf from them. move on more fish in the sea.
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Definitely. Be respectful and don't try and ruin a perfectly good relationship, but it's still worth saying.
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Tell him that you like his girl. I'm sure he'll understand.
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Depends if you know the boyfriend or not. Depends if he is protective and may want to manhunt you down for attempting to steal another man's woman. I've noticed that in relationships.. another man shows up in the picture and tries to manipulate the woman in leaving the guy, has sex with her, dumps her and now she has two men that don't want anything to do with her for different reasons.
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Only after you hogtie her and put her in your basement.
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I would just move on.
