I was just reminded of this by the party thread
Ok, sorry to bring THIS topic up again, but here's the deal
My friend has invited me to his party. The thing is is girlfriend is going as well, and me and her don't see eye to eye. By that, I mean we hate each others guts, seriously.
What happened was
>I developed feelings for her
>We became friends
>She starts being a complete and utter bitch towards me
>friendship ends
>I tell her my feelings
Last time we talked was when she sent me a long abusive message. So yeah I used to have feelings for her but now I just think she's -blam!-ing flaky skanky -blam!- and she hates my guts as well
It's because of her that I don't hang around with the friend in question in school anymore, but we still talk when we get the chance
So idk, should i go or not?
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Edited by SonOfTheShire: 4/19/2013 9:51:47 PMWait, is this the girl that you were really good friends with and then you fell in love with and then you betrayed her trust and then you made up again but it was never quite the same? That girl?
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Go and then -blam!- her best friend. Instawin.
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Get drunk and push her over. Thats the man way anyway.
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Edited by Cultmeister: 4/19/2013 8:48:50 PMif there are more than a few people going then i say you should go. it'll be easier to ignore her if there are a lot of others there as well and you might have a good time to boot.
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They plan to molest you don't go you're welcome
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No because you're foreveralone. But srs, if you go and she's a bitch, tell her. There's no reason to put up with abuse from someone that you cared about. You could even just leave.
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You should go. Don't flat out ignore her, treat her nicely. She'll likely mock you and try to provoke you, but don't give any/pretend you give zero shits. Then you'll get the satisfaction of pissing her off.
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I say so. The girl won't be with him forever, but by the time she leaves you may not be able to reconnect with the friend. Just avoid the girl, there'll be plenty of people there to keep you distracted. Making friends has everything to do with making the effort. Go.
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He invited you, you don't have to talk to the girlfriend.
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You shouldn't let her get in your way of having a nice party. Just ignore her and if it ruins her night, that's just one more thing for you to be happy about.
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Go. Ignore that bitch.
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Of course you should go. You support your bro, not his Ho.