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[quote]A gay man was arrested this week at a Missouri hospital after refusing to the leave bedside of his sick partner.
Roger Gorley went to Research Medical Center in Kansas City, Mo., on Tuesday to visit Allen, his partner of five years. But when he got there, a member of Allen's family asked him to leave, according to Kansas City Fox station WDAF. When Gorley refused, hospital security allegedly handcuffed him and forcefully removed him from the premises. Now he cannot visit Allen at all because of a restraining order filed against him by the hospital.
“I was not recognized as being the husband, I wasn’t recognized as being the partner,” Gorley told WDAF, adding that the nurse on duty refused to verify their joint Power of Attorney status. “She didn’t even bother to go look it up to check into it. He’s been at the psychiatric unit part several times.”
A spokesperson for Research Medical Center was not immediately available to give The Huffington Post a comment.
Click over to WDAF to read the hospital's response.
Back in 2010, President Barack Obama ordered all hospitals receiving Medicare and Medicaid payments to allow patients to determine who has visitation rights and who can make medical decisions. This right, extended to gay and lesbian partners, is supposed to give designated persons the same rights as immediate family members.
Obama said the new memorandum should "guarantee that all patients' advance directives, such as durable powers of attorney and health care proxies, are respected," and that designated persons should be able to "make informed decisions regarding patients' care."
Despite this, discrimination continues.
Last July, Paul Zilber claimed he was discriminated against at Saint Barnabas Behavioral Health Center in Toms River, N.J. Zilber went to visit his fiance -- who was receiving mental health treatment for what appeared to be a suicide attempt -- when he was reportedly called "inappropriate" for kissing his partner goodbye and removed from the visitation list, he told Care2. He later filed a complaint over the alleged harassment.[/quote]
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America, "Land Of The Free". lmao
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Edited by sims3k: 4/12/2013 8:20:42 AMThey werent married. Joint power of attorney means jack squat. The direct family must have had prior problems with the partner for them to request a restraining order. This has nothing to do with gayrights. But rather the right of the family vs the wants of a boyfriend.
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From another article I read, they implied that the guy lost his cool after his partner's family tried to make him leave. Then the hospital staff had him removed for being disruptive.
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Only in 'murikah....
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Were they married? If not the family has say on what goes and if they want they can stop the patient from seeing other people if he is under 18 or unable to talk or reply.
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Not in my America.
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The family asked him to leave. End of discussion.
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It's not a gay hate thing. Boyfriends and girlfriends alike are not family. And don't blame the hospital, it's simply following family's wishes.
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Dear Roger Gorely, For the love of God and all that is holy, sue the ass off this hospital and do NOT take any out-of-court settlements. -blam!- people like this. Your Friend, Extra Z
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[quote][b]Posted By:[/b] The Disputed Bin This is a first world country?[/quote] Yes, and these are first world problems.
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So? If he's not legally family then he deserved it.
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lol what is this, the 1950's?
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This makes me sad, knowing what's its like having a sick love one in the hospital with a high chance they aren't coming back...
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This is a first world country?
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The hospital is in the right here.
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Edited by PSU Athletics: 4/11/2013 5:39:26 PMUh yeah. They're not family. The same thing happened to me when I was trying to visit with my GIRLFRIEND. We wernt considered family even though i had been with her for 7 years. Get over it. Just more liberal propaganda. Typical media.
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The amount of people who don't see the real issue here. The problem is, this shouldn't be a problem. First off, the Joint Power of Attorney should remove any argument, because like it or not, this man is in charge of decisions for his spouse in case of medical emergency. He is the one who will be making medical choices in the events that something does happen - not his family, who are blinded by obvious bigoted eyes to understand that. Second, the Hospital (which, yes. Hospitals do receive Federal Funds), was ordered three years ago to not do this kind of scenario, because it is the Husband's choice of who visits, not the Family. They were out of line following the families wishes because they do not get to make that call. Third, this is just another example of why things like DOMA needs to just go away for good.
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[quote]PSU Athletics 19 replies[/quote] When the -blam!- are you people going to learn?
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Edited by ThisIsForMarty: 4/11/2013 6:01:55 PMYep that's what happens. You can't visit a GIRLFRIEND either so it isn't discrimination on the hospitals part. Inb4TheyCouldntMarry Same sex couples are not recognized in Missouri either.
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Aren't there visiting hours?
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So....anyone care to explain why the patient was attempting suicide? Anyone? Anyone at all?
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That's pretty unfortunate.
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lel, America is gay.
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[quote]I was not recognized as being the husband[/quote]So who's the wife in this relationship?
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America in 2013. lol
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[quote]refused to verify their joint Power of Attorney status[/quote] I think that part makes his point even stronger. I really don't think you can kick a holder of health care proxy out of a hospital for no reason when they are responsible for that person's healthcare decisions.